I haven’t yet written about Trump’s reaction to the speech of Khazir Khan, the father of Humayun Khan, a Muslim soldier killed in the service of the US, although it’s been dominating the news for several days. I ignored it till now because Trump’s reaction was so dreadful, so revealing of his enormous flaws, that the entire incident reveals exactly why I believe the GOP (and about 40% of its voters) made a horrific mistake in nominating this man. In other words, it’s depressing.
But of course, it needs to be discussed; it really can’t be run away from. Nor can the hands of time be turned back and give us a do-over.
Notice what I’m not saying about the incident. I’m not saying this means Trump will lose, although I think that this particular set of reactions by Trump has more potential for hurting him than almost anything he’s done so far. Nevertheless, he still could win, because Hillary is just that bad.
But it didn’t have to be this way. Even Trump’s biggest boosters are finding this one hard to defend; it’s an unforced error of no small magnitude. It highlights one of the most salient things about Trump’s character, for better and for worse: his inability to let an insult go. That may make him “a fighter”—it definitely does make him a fighter—but it also reveals his pettiness, his lack of statesmanship, and cements the perception of him as a loose cannon and as a person who is practically unhinged. I can’t tell you how many people who were otherwise disposed to vote GOP this year who have told me that Trump frightens them very much.
Let’s briefly review some of what was said by Khan and Trump. Khan spoke at the Democratic convention, and here are some quotes from him about Trump:
Donald Trump consistently smears the character of Muslims. He disrespects other minorities — women, judges, even his own party leadership. He vows to build walls and ban us from this country.
Donald Trump, you are asking Americans to trust you with our future. Let me ask you: Have you even read the U.S. Constitution? I will gladly lend you my copy. In this document, look for the words “liberty” and “equal protection of law.”
Have you ever been to Arlington Cemetery? Go look at the graves of the brave patriots who died defending America — you will see all faiths, genders, and ethnicities.
You have sacrificed nothing and no one.
How did Trump respond? By ludicrously claiming his own “sacrifices” and by dissing Khan’s wife as a too-obedient Muslim:
In his first response to Khan’s charges, Donald Trump claimed that he had in fact sacrificed by employing “thousands and thousands of people.” He also suggested that Khan’s wife didn’t speak because she was forbidden to as a Muslim and questioned whether Khan’s words were his own.
“If you look at his wife, she was standing there. She had nothing to say. She probably, maybe she wasn’t allowed to have anything to say. You tell me,” the Republican nominee said in an interview with ABC News’ George Stephanopoulos that will air on “This Week” on Sunday.
That latter statement of Trump’s gave Khan’s wife Ghazala the opportunity to explain that she didn’t speak because the subject is still way too emotional for her. And everyone who heard or read Khan’s speech understood, or should have understood, that the sacrifice he meant was one of blood. Anyone who has lost a child in the service of his or her country in wartime is on a level that other people have not reached (fortunately) in terms of sacrifice, and anyone with an ounce of judgment or decency would know better than to mount any other response to the issue of sacrifice than to acknowledge that fact. I haven’t seen anyone—even the most fervent of Trump’s supporters—defending Trump’s “thousands of people” comment about Trump’s own “sacrifice,” although I suppose somebody somewhere might be doing it. But it was that stupid, that offensive, that inadequate.
In the beginning of his campaign, Trump got away with something similar towards John McCain’s POW history. I believe that incident—and the fact that he only grew stronger after it—made him feel invincible in terms of criticizing military people or their families. I believe that he got away with his McCain remarks for several reasons, none of them operating here. The first was that he was dealing with Republican primary voters, not voters in a general election. The second was that a lot of people on the right detest John McCain and would forgive almost any criticism of him. And the third was that McCain is a grown man, a public figure, and he is alive rather than dead, having survived and prospered.
Grieving parents are a very very different story. But Trump was moved to take them on because he cannot stand, cannot abide, being dissed, and he is compelled by his own personality to fight back in any way he sees fit, even in stupid ways. This is not a recommendation for the job of the presidency. Whether most people would consider it a fatal flaw I do not know, but I can speak for myself: I was already very reluctant to vote for this man, and he’s making me even more reluctant, despite my detestation of Hillary Clinton. Simply put, the prospect of either becoming president is almost literally sickening.
There’s another thing wrong with one of Trump’s rejoinders to Khan. This one was embedded in an attempt by Trump to make things right [emphasis mine]:
Late Saturday evening, Trump issued a statement honoring Khan, but he also took the opportunity to deride Clinton. “Captain Humayun Khan was a hero to our country and we should honor all who have made the ultimate sacrifice to keep our country safe. While I feel deeply for the loss of his son, Mr. Khan who has never met me, has no right to stand in front of millions of people and claim I have never read the Constitution, (which is false) and say many other inaccurate things. If I become President, I will make America safe again.”
Mr. Khan has no right to do so? In fact, he has every right to do so, and that right is protected by the very Constitution that Trump purports to have read.
What’s more, Khan never “claimed” that Trump has never read the Constitution. I’ve already quoted Khan; what he said was to ask Trump a question: “Have you even read the U.S. Constitution?” Now, granted, that implies it is highly unlikely that Trump has read it. But it doesn’t claim that Trump hasn’t. And Trump’s response indicates that Khan may be right in asking the question and in assuming that Trump either hasn’t read it, or has read it and not understood it, or has read it and understood it and thinks that one exception is that no one has a right to publicly criticize Donald Trump.
None of this is a good sign. Not one bit of it.
[NOTE: In the meantime, something tremendously offensive that Hillary Clinton said re the Benghazi parents has been eclipsed. However, what Clinton did was more subtle than Trump (and of course, the MSM is not interested in whipping up anger against her, so it has no reason to emphasize it).
Here’s Hillary’s exchange on the subject:
CHRIS WALLACE: One of the most dramatic moments in the Republican convention was when pat Smith, the mother of Sean Smith, one of the people who died in Benghazi, stood up before the convention and blamed you for her son’s death.
PAT SMITH: I blame Hillary Clinton personally for the death of my son. That’s personally.
WALLACE: She and the father of Tyrone Woods both say that on the day that their sons’ bodies were returned to the United States that you came up to them and you said it was all because of a video, not terrorism. Now, I know some of the other families disagree with this, and I know you deny it. The question is, why would they make that up?
HILLARY CLINTON: Chris, my heart goes out to both of them. Losing a child under any circumstances, especially in this case, two State Department employees, extraordinary men both of them, two CIA contractors gave their lives protecting our country, our values. I understand the grief and the incredible sense of loss that can motivate that. As other members of families who lost loved ones have said, that’s not what they heard, I don’t hold any ill feeling for someone who in that moment may not fully recall everything that was or wasn’t said.
Pat Smith and Tyrone Woods’ father were making a far more serious charge against Clinton than the one that Khan made against Trump. But note the difference in Clinton’s response. She begins with a lengthy tribute to them and their sacrifice. Then she calls them liars (or merely mistaken—knaves or fools) for not “fully recalling” “everything that was or wasn’t said.”
The implication is that she—the magnanimous, respectful Hillary—is calm and forgiving towards those who accuse her, as well as understanding, and that she is possessed of the more perfect memory that the others lack. The fact that she’s insulting them can get lost in the shuffle, because the response is quite masterful in the political sense. Whatever you think of her remarks (and I think they are self-serving and abominable), they convey the idea that she, in contrast to Trump, is no loose cannon. She is a person who thinks before she speaks. That is reassuring to those (and their numbers are legion) who are afraid of Trump’s emotional volatility.]