There’s a lot of post-election fear out there on the part of many liberals who voted for Hillary Clinton.
Not all of them by any means, as I think I’ve made clear in other posts. But along with some my liberal friends who are quickly adjusting and even already welcoming some of the possibilities they’re now sensing in Trump’s impending presidency, I have a lot of other friends who are in various states of alarm and grief.
I’m not talking about celebrities like Streisand. I’m not talking about people making a spectacle of themselves, or destroying property in their anger. I’m talking about ordinary folks who are liberals, some politically active and some much less so, who were genuinely frightened by Trump’s demonstrations of impulsiveness, cruelty, and some of his stated policy intentions during the campaign. And they have every right to be frightened; he gave them an awful lot of fuel for their fearful fire.
I see quite a bit of mockery of these people all around the right side of the blogosphere, from those who are understandably high on the amazing victory that Trump and the GOP have just experienced. Schadenfreude is a popular emotion because it feels so good, and I’m not meaning to rain on anyone’s celebratory parade or to reiterate Trump’s flaws for no reason—I feel hopeful and optimistic right now myself. But I’m very aware of the very real fears of many liberals, fears that I could come to share if Trump’s worst side comes back into the ascendance and stays there, and if some of his worst suggestions (ones he has mostly walked back, thankfully) come to pass.
These are real people to whom I’m very close, several of whom I love very very dearly. After the 2012 election, when they knew how bad I was feeling and how hard I’d worked against the result of that election, some of them were very kind and comforting to me, and none of them rubbed anything in.
So I ask you not to totally forget that there were things that Trump said and did that stoked fears, fears that were even aired at times by a lot of conservatives on this blog (and even many Trump supporters) prior to the election. Remember also that, because most of us here agree with many (not all, but many) of Trump’s stated political aims, we have the luxury of being happy about the GOP Congress along with this presidency. It’s much easier for us to hope for the best and jettison the worst.
Liberals are in a very different position.
A commenter here wrote:
Is professing to be afraid [of Trump’s victory] virtue-signaling? Or do they believe their own propaganda?
For a small minority I suppose it’s virtue-signaling (they’re probably some of the ones posting sobbing videos in order to publicly demonstrate their fears). But not for the people I know, and I know a lot of them. For them it’s very real and very sincere, and it should be very understandable even to Trump supporters.
And for the most part it’s not the result of propaganda, either. There was real evidence—from Trump’s own words—of things which people are genuinely fearful about: his apparent mocking the disabled, his original vow to deport all illegal immigrants (which would necessarily include children), his seeming acquiescence to setting up a registry of Muslims (he walked that one back almost immediately, but many people don’t know that and still remember it with fear), his proposal to stop all Muslim immigration and even (initially) to not allow Muslim citizens or legal non-citizen residents to return to this country if those people leave were to leave. There’s also reason for some people to be afraid of the end of Obamacare, which can be a terrifying thought if its subsidies are the only way a person believes he or she can afford insurance and/or has a pre-existing condition, and doesn’t trust the Republicans to keep those features. For some, ending gay marriage (through SCOTUS appointments), ending abortion (same mechanism), and the whole drift towards conservatism is frightening and disheartening in a very personal way.
These things may not frighten you. In fact, you may highly approve of many of them. But it’s not “virtue-signaling” for a liberal—or anyone affected, for that matter—to be frightened about them. I think that, as time goes on and as Trump’s actual policies and plans emerge, the vast majority of these fears will be allayed. But we don’t know that for certain—and most definitely, they don’t know that at all.
There’s also the alt-right, in particular the bigoted and hateful wing of the alt-right. Whether or not you believe that Trump is in agreement with them (I certainly don’t), he gave them subtle encouragement and they certainly think they’re on the rise. Even without any official Trump stamp of approval or encouragement, they could become very cocky and cause trouble, in the streets or elsewhere. This is another very real fear that I don’t think deserves any kind of mockery.
And then of course there’s Trump’s impulsive nature and some of his impulsive and/or ignorant words about nuclear weapons and the nuclear triangle. Again, you may not agree that he’s that unstable—especially at the moment, when he’s been acting calm and presidential—but there has been plenty of reason that someone could be genuinely afraid of those things. Trump’s own words and character during this campaign season have engendered the fear, and it will naturally take time for trust to build, particularly in those who were on the other side.
As for me, I feel very hopeful at the opportunities this election has opened up, although I don’t know that Trump and the GOP Congress will be able to pull any of it off. But with change of this magnitude—and a president completely untested in political office—a certain amount of anxiety is in order, even if you’re on the right.
Maybe because I was once on the other side, I have no trouble whatsoever imagining how it would feel to be a liberal Democrat and to have watched those election returns on Tuesday night. So I’m asking for some compassion for frightened liberals, and I hope more people extend it, if they really want to Make America Great Again.
[Part II, an examination of the response of Schadenfreude, will be coming soon.]
[NOTE: By the way, some of the fearful are even children, who have picked up on the swirling fear around them, not always from family but some of it in school and social media. I think that’s especially sad and especially worthy of compassion.]