Commenter Rufus T. Firefly asks a question that I find interesting:
Has anyone noticed EVERYONE seems to have aged 5 or more years during the two years of lockdowns? I first started noticing this in myself, prior to the lockdowns most folks would guess my age 10 – 15 years younger than I am and think I was joking when I told them my actual age. Now, no one bats an eyelash when they hear my age. I, of course, noticed it myself. I see myself in the mirror every day. My appearance has changed more in the past two years than any other time in my life, except in infancy. But I started to notice the same thing with everyone I interact with. Even people I know who always looked very youthful… Everyone looks 5 – 10 years older.
Anyone else see this? Is it COVID? The vaccines? The stress of lockdowns? Many people gained a lot of weight, is that it? Is it the lack of social interaction?
I’ve noticed long before COVID that the aging process seems to proceed in a series of discrete leaps rather than a slow linear progression. I even wrote a post that dealt with the topic. In it, I wrote this:
I’ve noticed in my own life and among my friends, as well as for public figures, that visible aging doesn’t progress in smooth linear fashion. It advances in fits and starts and discrete bumps.
One year I look around at my friends at the Christmas party and everybody looks pretty darn good. The next year I wonder who all these old folk are. In their thirties and forties the aging process seems so slow and gentle as to be almost stagnant; most people seem to go on and on looking almost like they did in their twenties.
There’s a group who hit the aging wall in their mid-to-late forties, going almost overnight from young to oldish. They’re the canaries in the mine. Another bunch “turn” quite suddenly in their late fifties, with the early sixties a time of particular peril for many.
Well, I was younger when I wrote that, and the peril only increases.
So if the COVID lockdowns coincide with one of those “quantum leap” aging times for a person, that person is going to look more than two years older on emerging from seclusion. I think some of the observed aging is accounted for by that.
But not all of it. I haven’t observed accelerated aging across the board, but I have observed a certain amount. Some of it may be due to people getting out of the habit of preparing “a face to meet the faces that you meet.” For women, that can mean makeup and hair and weight and clothing. For men it tends to mean the latter two on that list. When we seldom see anyone but those we live with – or if we live alone and hardly go out – many people dispense with those things that as we get older are even more important in looking good.
There’s also a lack of exercise. Some people have used the lockdowns to get into great shape, but I don’t think that’s common. I know more people who say they’ve cut back on exercising, whether through inertia or for some other reason I don’t know. And of course, many health clubs were closed for a long time, and I doubt that everyone went back even when they opened again.
Don’t discount the effect of depression, either. The lockdowns themselves have been depressing, including the lack of concerts and plays to attend, things that tend to perk people up. Depressing also is the political situation, and I find that’s true no matter what side of the political spectrum a person may be on. And then there’s inflation – depressing, as well.
Depression doesn’t make people look good or make them look younger. It drags the face down and can make it sag. When my father-in-law died I noticed that my mother-in-law appeared to age a decade in what seemed like a matter of weeks. It can happen.
I don’t think any of this was from COVID itself, nor from the vaccines. It was the lockdowns, and the perception that we’ve been lied to and manipulated, and the resultant grinding social isolation. It hasn’t affected everyone to the same degree, nor is it the only thing that causes people to age more quickly. But I think it’s real.
