Falling out of love with Obama

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[The following is a reprint of a post I first wrote about a year ago. It still seems timely, so I thought I’d post it again.]

Even the left appears to have fallen out of love with Obama, and wonders how and why it all went wrong. Read as Tom Junod tries to puzzle it out in Esquire:

Though many Americans didn’t know very much about him, there was one thing that was never in doubt when we saw and heard Obama on the stump: his ownership of his gift. By the way he carried himself, we could tell that he had always had it, and because he always had it, we could be sure that he always would have it. How could we resist a man who simply by opening his mouth could move mountains ”” and who had ascended all the way to the presidency by staking his political life on his own eloquence? How could we resist a man who seemed so sure that we could not resist him?

Now his gift has all but deserted him, and all that prevents the story from becoming tragic is his own apparent refusal to be affected by it…In less than two years he had gone from sounding like a man who could always count on his ability to strum the mystic chords of memory to a man who, no matter what he said, sounded like a politician, and one in over his head at that. Now he sounded like a man who had already realized that he had lost more than he imagined he could but was just starting to understand that he was never going to get it back.

Junod is right, and he’s also wrong. He’s describing what he perceives to have changed about Obama, and it’s true. Rather like Dumbo when he lost his magic feather, Obama has lost some of the belief in his own invincibility that carried him along, and it shows.

But Junod thinks he is describing something that mainly has its locus in Obama himself, and that it is Obama who has changed. Not really, except for a slightly lower confidence level. Junod is actually describing the process of falling in and then out of love on the part of the viewer.

Obama never was a great communicator. It’s been said before, but it bears repeating now: he rode on a stump speech and a vague promise, and the fervent hope in people’s minds that he would be whatever they happened to want him to be. He was never articulate off the cuff. He was always condescending and cold once he left the confines of that set speech. He had a terrible and/or nonexistent political record. He had never run anything except the Annenberg Challenge (and that was done poorly) or the Harvard Law Review. He had no sense of humor.

They fell in love nevertheless. Love is great. It feels good, but it tends to be blind. And when you fall out of it, you wonder what happened. You can explain it by saying that it’s the love object who has changed. Or you can wonder whatever you were thinking of in the first place.

Junod and many Obamaphiles (is it premature to call them ex-Obamaphiles?) are doing the former. In one of my favorite Shakespearean plays, “A Midsummer Night’s Dream,” Titania does the latter:

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Shakespeare’s play is an exploration of love and its mysterious qualities. When Shakespeare has the character Puck observe to the Fairy King Oberon, “Lord, what fools these mortals be!” he’s talking at least in part of their propensity to be fooled—in the case of the play, by his own magic machinations, among other things. The play has the lovers manipulated in a curious way: Puck puts some drops in their eyes that alter their perceptions and make them fall in love with the first being who comes their way.

Thus, the locus of the change is placed in the beholder, where it often belongs. The object of love remains the same person, whether adored or despised. When Puck places the drops in her eyes, Fairy Queen Titania falls in love with an ass (that is, a rude laborer, Bottom, who has been transformed by magic into a man with a donkey’s head, but let’s not get too technical). When Puck later applies the antidote and she falls out of love, she can’t believe she ever liked Bottom in the first place.

Junod, on the other hand, doesn’t doubt that Obama originally possessed the sterling characteristics his admirers perceived in him. Junod sees the main locus of change as being in Obama, not in himself as Obama-watcher. When Junod writes, “How could we resist a man who simply by opening his mouth could move mountains?” he’s being hyperbolic (at least I hope he is). But Obamalove came close to being just that irrational and just that emotional.

In the play, everything comes out all right in the end (although, as the character Lysander says, “The course of true love never did run smooth”). In politics, not so much. Of course, 2012 is a long way away…and there’s a lot of room for reconciliation. But can one ever recapture that initial glow?

Model faces

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I’ve noticed, on looking at photos of models and some starlets (is that still an acceptable word?), that you need to have a rather broad and almost triangular face to continue to be pretty while at the same time sporting a body that is close to being emaciated. That’s where someone like Sarah Jessica Parker breaks down—her face is as thin as her body, which is painfully scrawny. Her face doesn’t hide her state of starvation behind a facade of prettiness.

For many models, though, their faces do. It’s an interesting combo. See, for example, this photo taken during fashion week:

It’s not a combination that exists all that often in nature. But then, most of the attributes of models don’t exist all that often in nature. That’s what makes them models.

Raising taxes on the rich

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Let’s not get too taken with the minutiae of the Obama deficit-reduction proposal, which are a bit difficult to discern at this point anyway. This is merely Obama’s latest move in a chess game that will have many more moves and countermoves before it is finished.

It certainly was inevitable that Obama’s deficit-reduction proposal would include raising taxes on “the rich,” however that is defined at the moment. Is this a good idea? This video of Obama from two years ago has gotten a bit of traction; he says that raising taxes in the middle of a recession is not a good idea:

But before we criticize Obama for hypocrisy or changing his mind, reflect on the question of whether we are still technically in the middle of a recession. And reflect on the fact that the tools for fighting a recession are not necessarily the same tools that tackle deficit reduction.

That’s the dilemma as I see it. Democrats and Republicans differ greatly on how to fight both. Democrats lean heavily on the side of more taxes, especially for those shape-shifters “the rich,” and on the notion of income redistribution to make things more “fair.” Republicans believe that “the rich” includes small businesses that cannot be bled too much or they will cease to drive the engine of our economy, and that it only “fair” that people should be allowed to keep their earnings as much as possible.

We can argue till the cows come home on whether higher taxes on the rich will depress the economy. I happen to think it will have a chilling effect on an economy that is already cold enough. But I really have no idea (I’m being honest here) whether we’ve reached that point already, or whether some slight increases would be okay (I also don’t think that couples making $250,000—especially if they run a small business—are particularly rich, although I’ve never seen anywhere near that income in my lifetime.)

What’s more, in my opinion Obama’s proposed cuts in Medicare don’t go quite far enough, despite the fact that any cuts in entitlements feel noxious. But we’re going to have to get used to more of that feeling.

But I’m waiting to see what the gang of 12 is going to come up with. And then, to see who will win the battle. None of this continuing uncertainty can possibly be good for the economy, however.

Palestine’s UN gambit

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Abbas’s announcement that he will seek UN approval for a Palestinian state and a seat at that august institution is hardly surprising. Israel’s position during the Obama years has been understood by the world to have been significantly weakened, because so many of Obama’s actions (insulting Netanyahu, for example) have telegraphed that his commitment to Israel is exceedingly squishy compared to that of his predecessors. In addition, so much of his Middle East policy has transmitted a sense of a drifting and powerless administration that no one respects or fears, no matter what its intentions—which are nearly impossible to divine.

And without the US as stalwart friend, Israel is more isolated than ever. The Palestinian PR campaign has been remarkably effective. Support for its agenda has only increased in the nearly forty years since the Munich massacre of 1972 gained Yasser Arafat the prestige and privilege of addressing the UN a scant two years later, empty gun holster and all:

Apart from Pope Paul VI, Arafat is the only person who does not represent a government ever to address the plenary Assembly. The Pontiff had a claim to legitimacy as head of a state; he is ruler of Vatican City. Arafat heads a heterogeneous organization whose popular strength is untested, but the Arab nations nonetheless greeted him as a conquering hero.

Except for a brief moment at the beginning of Israel’s existence, when the UN voted to partition the former British colony into two states, one Palestinian and one Israeli (a partition the Israelis accepted and the Palestinians rejected, leading to war), the UN has been the stalwart champion of the Palestinians. This latest move is only the most recent in a long long line of actions in which the UN is nearly obsessed with condemning Israel; you’d almost think it was the UN’s main function.

Abbas seems a bit surprised that the Obama administration appears determined to hold to America’s usual support for Israel through a Security Council veto. But such a move is hardly surprising; even Obama is not prepared to abandon Israel so publicly and break precedent so openly.

Equally unsurprising are the responses of pundits such as Friedman of the Times to the Abbas move and the US reaction. It’s the Israel lobby holding the US hostage, yada yada yada. If you read the comments section after Friedman’s piece, you’ll see that’s the acceptable party line now, not a fringe opinion (as Glenn Greenwald approvingly points out here).

Nothing much may come of the UN gambit except more PR. The US will veto the action in the Security Council. If Abbas chooses to go to the General Assembly, he will win the vote, but the win doesn’t seem particularly meaningful in practical terms. It will probably only serve to further convince Israel of how alone it is, as though it needed any convincing at this point.

[NOTE: See also this and this.

Oh, and a prediction: just watch the trolls come. They nearly always do when Israel is the topic.]

Looking back at George W. Bush

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A number of people have recommended this article by Walt Harrington about George W. Bush, whom the journalist first met back in the 80s and became friendly with. Those people are correct; it’s a fascinating read.

Their friendship endured throughout Bush’s presidency. Despite the fact that Harrington seems to be a Democrat, he clearly likes Bush and has long been outraged by the hatred directed against him.

Harrington describes watching the advent of BDS (he doesn’t call it that, though) from his perch as journalism professor at the University of Illinois during the early years of the Bush presidency. He was shocked and mystified, knowing Bush as he does and knowing the man that he is. He sees some graffitti reading “Kill Bush” scrawled on a wall at the university and wonders “Is this America?”

Although Harrington did not vote for Bush, he did write a column during his presidency attacking the attackers and saying, “[Bush is] smart, thoughtful in a brawny kind of way and, most of all, a good and decent man…It baffles me that grown people must convince themselves that those with whom they disagree are stupid or malevolent.”

Those who feel that Bush is actually stupid and malevolent (and their numbers are legion) probably either are not reading Harrington’s piece, or are discounting it if they happen to read it. They know what they know, and one thing they know for sure is that Bush never reads and that even if he did he wouldn’t understand what he read, although Harrington describes a Bush whose love of reading (especially history) goes back at least to their meeting in the 80s, when Bush was still called “Junior” and his father was still president.

Harrington quotes Bush as once having told me that “reading books means you’re not lonely.” But one thing the Harrington article makes clear is that loneliness has not ordinarily been a big problem for Bush; he’s always been good at making friends and keeping them. This ability was probably Bush’s most salient characteristic, going back at least as far as his school days at Andover (see this about Bush’s prep school career, which describes a well-liked, friendly, and humorous guy whose people skills were already highly developed; also see this profile in Time that appeared before BDS had taken such a firm hold of the press).

Harrington writes about how disturbed Bush II was during the Bush I presidency at the bad press his father was getting, and when I read that I wondered how the son had subsequently managed to handle his own far more vicious press so well. He had learned something in the interim:

“When I got elected governor and president, history gave me a chance to study the decisions of my predecessors,” Bush says. As governor, he read The Raven, by Marquis James, a biography of Sam Houston, the father of Texas statehood. “I was fascinated by the story of Houston voting against secession, and reading a description of him basically being driven out of town by angry citizens. ”¦ My only point is that one lesson I learned, if they’re throwing garbage on Houston, arguably Texas’s most famous politician””Sam Houston Elementary School, where I went to school in Midland, was named for him!””if they’re throwing garbage on him, they can throw garbage on me.”…

When Bush read, in Presidential Courage, by Michael Beschloss, that historians were still debating whether George Washington had been a good president, he told Laura that if they were still debating Washington’s presidency more than 200 years later, he would not worry what public opinion was saying about him now. “And the other thing for me was that I saw a great man be criticized, as you might recall,” he says, referring again to the vitriol aimed at GHWB during the losing reelection campaign of 1992. “On the harshness meter, it seemed unusually harsh to me, as the son. So, therefore, when I became president, the criticism to me was nothing compared to the criticism to him. And so I was able to keep life in perspective two ways: one, through reading of history and how other leaders were treated, but also having witnessed history with my dad.”

Also there’s this (and as I read it, I can’t help but wonder if Obama, who seems to revere Lincoln as well, has read 14 biographies of him, as Bush has. Certainly if he has, he’s not learned the lesson about signaling weakness, or passing the responsibility buck):

Bush believes that one of the most important stage requirements of the presidency is indeed never to signal weakness or self-doubt or confusion: “One of the things you learn about great leaders is that they never project the burdens of responsibility on others.” He remembers Richard Carwardine’s Lincoln: A Life of Purpose and Power (one of 14 Lincoln biographies Bush read while he was president), which recounts the 16th president’s perseverance through not only military defeat after defeat, stupefying troop casualties, and public ridicule, but also the death of his son Willie and the debilitating emotional turmoil of his wife.

“You’re not the only person that’s ever gone through hard things,” Bush says of the lessons he has learned from history. “In other words, can you imagine the signal I would have sent had I said, ”˜Ah, why me? Why am I thrust in the middle of all this stuff?’ And they had kids on the front line of combat who were actually having to do all the work.”

But perhaps the most interesting part of the article is when Harrington visits his old friend GW at the White House in 2003, and asks him what it’s like to be president. Bush answers only after ascertaining that his response will be off the record:

And he began to talk””and talk and talk for what must have been nearly three hours. I’ve never told anyone the specifics of what he said that night, not even my wife or closest friends. I did not make notes later and have only my memory. In the journalism world, off the record is off the record. But I have repeatedly described the hours as “amazing,” “remarkable,” “stunning.”…

As he talked, I even thought about an old Saturday Night Live skit in which an amiable, bumbling President Ronald Reagan, played by Phil Hartman, goes behind closed doors to suddenly become a masterful operator in total charge at the White House. The transformation in Bush was that stunning to me.

Here’s Bush in a later post-presidency interview with Harrington, on how history will judge him:

“Some people walk up and say, ”˜Oh, man, history is going to judge you well.’ And my quip is, ”˜I’m not going to be around to see it.’ And to me, that’s one of the most important lessons you learn through history””you’re just not gonna be around to see it. ”¦ I’m confident of this: that those conclusions will be more objective with time than they could conceivably be now.”

I wonder whether those judgments are already starting to change.

Feeling your pain

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The news is out that a way to objectively document a patient’s pain is being developed:

A team at Stanford University in California used computer learning software to sort through data generated by brain scans and detect when people were in pain.

“The question we were trying to answer was can we use neuroimaging to objectively detect whether a person is in a state of pain or not. The answer was yes,” Dr. Sean Mackey of the Stanford University School of Medicine in California, whose study appears in the journal PLoS One.

The method is in the earliest stages. But it may someday make it possible to tell whether an infant, a coma patient, or a person who’s elderly and demented is in pain.

I can also think of some potentially troublesome uses for it: to deny pain medication to patients whose brains don’t test out as undergoing enough pain to justify the treatment, despite the fact that a machine like this could never be flawless.

A personal note: back when I was in fairly severe chronic pain for a number of years (I’ve written about that experience here), I fantasized the invention of a pain replicator, to show doctors exactly what the experience felt like, if only for a moment. I imagined the sort of machine you see in 50s science-fiction movies, a metal contraption that a patient could step into and have his or her pain recorded in detail. Then the doctor would enter it, and for a minute or so would undergo exactly the same pain as the patient. This would not only help with diagnosis, it would bring on a bit more empathy from the medical profession.

I realized, of course, that even my imaginary machine couldn’t tell them about the suffering chronic pain patients feel at the seemingly intractable quality of their pain: the perception that it may never end, that there is no relief to be had. I had read the work of Dr. Eric Cassell, who had observed in his book The Nature of Suffering and the Goals of Medicine (excerpt here) that pain and suffering are not always the same.

There are three other times when suffering in close relation to pain is commonly reported…First, when the pain is so severe that it is virtually overwhelming. The second is when the patient does not believe that the pain can be controlled. The suffering of patients with terminal cancer can often be relieved when it is demonstrated that their pain truly can be controlled. They will then often tolerate the same pain without any medication, preferring the pain to the side effects of their analgesics. Another type of pain that can be a source of suffering is pain that is not overwhelming but continues for a very long time so that it seems the pain is endless. Physicians commonly tell patients that they will “get used to the pain” but that rarely happens.

It is difficult to describe the effect this book had on me at the time I read it, which was in the early 90s, when the treatment of chronic pain was still in its relative infancy. It sounds depressing, but to me it wasn’t. It held out a ray of hope: if this doctor understood, then chronic pain patients weren’t so alone.

For most chronic pain patients, the pain is not imaginary or “all in their head.” For example, my pain had very clear antecedents, and the neural path of my pain was consistent with my injuries, so fortunately I was not usually tormented by physicians accusing me of malingering or being a whackjob. Nevertheless, I knew that pain does have a psychological component and a psychological effect, and Cassell understood both without needing a pain-replicating machine to show him.

Hollywood may no longer love Obama…

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…but it hates Perry and Bachmann worse.

In Hollywood, the disaffection seems to come down to “Obama wasn’t the miracle worker I thought he’d be.” It should come as no surprise that Hollywood’s belief in magical thinking extends to politics.

But nothing energizes the Hollywood crowd like the thought of crazy stupidheads Perry and Bachmann:

But even the most disenchanted of the Hollywood Democrats could be pushed into Obama’s fund-raising effort by the Republican nominee. “The more we see the Michele Bachmanns and the Rick Perrys, the more frightened we are,” Bragman says.

When asked why he hasn’t deserted Obama altogether, Lear says: “The Republicans running for president are a bunch of clowns. We may be disappointed in a lot of things that are going on in the Obama administration, but whatever we say about him, he’s not a clown.”

As the disenchanted executive who’s sitting things out so far puts it, if Obama “is suddenly in a competitive race with Bachmann or Perry, I’ll max out so fast it will make your head spin.”

Attacks on the Republican front-runners, including lies and distortions of their positions by the MSM, serve many purposes. One is to discredit the Republicans in the eyes of those who might be on the fence. But the other is to rally the potentially-reluctant moneygivers and spur them on. If they won’t donate out of love, they’ll donate out of fear.

I don’t know Jack

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It may come as no surprise to you that I’m not a fast-food fan. For me it’s not the principle of the thing: I just don’t like the taste, for the most part. And if a lot of calories are going to be involved in a food item, it had better be extra-yummy.

I used to take my son to McDonald’s when he was little, as a very special treat for him (the playground! the Happy Meal!). But I usually didn’t have much to eat there myself, except perhaps some fries. Same for Burger King and the rest.

But recently I was with some friends on a trip out west and one of them waxed eloquent about the culinary charms of Jack in the Box. I had heard of the chain, of course; how could a person travel around the US and not notice them? But I couldn’t remember ever having stepped foot in one.

Why would I? After all, they combined two of my most hated items: fast food and jacks in the box (jack in the boxes?). I’d owned one of the latter as a child, and although I wasn’t especially scared of it, I found its suddenly appearing and disappearing clown head creepy, and its feeble mechanism readily and frustratingly breakable.

But my friend kept talking about how good the food at Jack’s was, especially the egg rolls and the sirloin burger and the…well, suffice to say this didn’t sound like a McDonald’s menu. So we stopped at one.

I have to say I was favorably impressed, although I’m not talking gourmet dining here. But this was clearly the most yuppie-ish fast-food haven around. Jack tries harder, and succeeds in getting out a product that is at least somewhat tasty and somewhat varied in scope. As the Jack Wiki entry says:

Jack in the Box also offers an American version of ethnic cuisine…Jack in the Box also carries seasonal items such as pumpkin pie shakes, Oreo mint shakes, and eggnog shakes during the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays. In some locations, local delicacies are a regular part of the menu. Locations in Hawaii, for example, include the Paniolo Breakfast (Portuguese sausage, eggs, and rice platter)…In the Southern United States, the company offers biscuits and sweet tea. In Imperial County, California, some locations sell date shakes, reflecting the crop’s ubiquity in the region’s farms. In the spring of 2007 Jack in the Box also introduced its sirloin burger and followed this up with recently the sirloin steak melt.

Now of course you may know all this—especially if you live in the west or the southwest. I learned from going to Jack’s website that the company does not have any franchises in the northeast or northern midwest, and not many in the southest, either, although my friend had distinctly remembered a presence in the northeast. The puzzle was solved when I learned that Jack had at one point expanded into the northeast and then pulled back and regrouped when things didn’t go well.

Jack is good on regrouping, as its ad campaign (which, if you don’t live in the northeast, you may also be familiar with; I had never seen them before) has emphasized. The “Jack” character in the ads still has that creepy-clown quality, although he’s got a quasi-hipster style now. But the ads themselves are clever and not always PC.

Here’s a fairly typical one:

I happen to like this one a lot:

Jack in the Box posts the calorie content of its meals right up there on the menu for you to contemplate when you’re ordering, and the information is mighty sobering indeed. So I’m not going to mourn the northeast’s lack of Jack too much. Each item has about half my recommended caloric intake for a day, and some contain my entire caloric intake for a day.

Carville to Obama: time to panic!

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James Carville has never been one for understatement. And although as a good Democrat he has supported Obama, there must have always been a disconnect between Obama’s cool, laid-back style and Carville’s natural tendency towards heat.

Now that things are going especially badly for Obama, Carville tries to light a fire under the president and tells him to fire people, indict people, and “make a case like a Democrat.”

I’m not quite sure what that latter means. But the whole thing is a cri de coeur, a scream of frustration and pain from a guy who cannot stand seeing all the hard-won Democratic gains squandered. One can hardly blame him.

Have you noticed how many Democrats have been carping at Obama during the last two years, telling him what they think he should be doing? I’ve never before seen a president given so much advice from the sidelines. But perhaps that’s because never before have there been such high expectations of a president with so little experience.

Joe McGinniss finally…

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…comes out with his book-length gossip sheet on temporary next-door-neighbor Sarah Palin, and even the NY Times can’t stomach it: McGinniss is “too busy being nasty to be lucid.”

Ouch—although, of course, the two are hardly mutually exclusive.

McGinniss is also too late, poor dear. As the Times points out, pretty much everything in the book has already been thoroughly aired online (except for a few new but unusually poorly-sourced allegations), although the review manages to coyly avoid mentioning one of the most prolific practitioners of the “nasty rather than lucid in service of smearing Plain” art, Andrew Sullivan.

Will books such as McGinniss’s matter? It’s hard to believe that anyone other than the most rabidly entrenched Palin-haters, who believe her fully capable of every stupidity and/or evil already, would care much about what McGinniss is saying. Even Palin-hating gets old after a while.