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So, will it be the nuclear option to end the shutdown?

The New Neo Posted on November 1, 2025 by neoNovember 1, 2025

I don’t see the Democrats capitulating and ending the shutdown. They seem to have boxed themselves into a corner.

Trump is all for Senate Republicans invoking the so-called nuclear option:

“Get rid of the Filibuster, and get rid of it, NOW!’” Trump posted on his social media platform Truth Social.

In a separate post, he wrote, “THE CHOICE IS CLEAR — INITIATE THE “NUCLEAR OPTION,” GET RID OF THE FILIBUSTER AND, MAKE AMERICA GREAT AGAIN!”

There is no question in my mind that the Democrats would end it themselves in the future, when and if they get control of the Senate, and if they have the votes for it and need it to pass something they consider important. The only reason it did not happen already during the Biden administration was the presence of two Democrat “no” votes in the persons of Joe Manchin and Kyrsten Sinema. They’re gone from the Senate now and I think we can be pretty sure they won’t be returning, so the only Democrat I can see blocking the nuclear option in the future would be – perhaps – John Fetterman.

So, should the Republicans vote to be able to end the shutdown by a simple majority? I’m not sure that they presently have the votes to do it. In fact, I think they don’t have the votes to do it – there’s Collins and Murkowski and Tillis, for example. Only Thune knows if they do, and although he hasn’t revealed the head count, he seems to be saying “no”.

Johnson – who really has no say, being in the House – likewise isn’t in favor.

Another thought I have is that the Republicans seem to have gained support during the shutdown rather than lost it. That might make them less-than-eager to use the nuclear option to end it, at least not yet.

Posted in Liberals and conservatives; left and right, Politics, Trump | 15 Replies

Open thread 11/1/2025

The New Neo Posted on November 1, 2025 by neoNovember 1, 2025

How did November get here so fast?

Posted in Uncategorized | 34 Replies

Musings on divorce after a long marriage

The New Neo Posted on October 31, 2025 by neoOctober 31, 2025

Commenter “Rufus T. Firefly” writes, in contemplation of the fact that James Lileks and his wife are separating after decades of marriage:

I think this fascinates me because he is being so very open and public about something that all of us who are married are susceptible to. When my wife and I had been married about 7 years I heard a stat on divorce. More than 20% of divorces occur after 25 years of marriage. I was shocked. How could a couple live together for 25 years and then divorce? It would seem, if you make it that far, you’d have things pretty much worked out. I would have guessed almost no one divorces after 20 years of marriage.

Then, around the 25 year mark, the Lovely Mrs. Firefly and my nest was emptying out and her and had a lot more free time and were spending a lot more time together. That’s when it hit me. “Oh, this is a whole, different thing.” And we were entirely different people than the two, young people who exchanged vows at an altar so many years ago. I remember talking with my wife about it when we were on a long drive to visit friends for the weekend. I realized her and I had to figure out a new way to live together. When kids are around and you’re working and busy you have far fewer options regarding how you spend your time, what you will do with your nights and weekends, where you will live, what you will eat*… Sometimes limits to freedom can make things easier.

Although I’ve read Lileks at times, I’m not a regular there and know zero about his marriage. But I do know about divorce after a long marriage, from personal experience. I’m not going to tell my story, because my ex and I are friends now, but suffice to say that even he would say that he was at fault.

I got a divorce, having left very reluctantly after thirty-one years of marriage. It was something that had to be done, but it was incredibly difficult. Heartbreakingly so. Among other things, I was recovering – slowly – from a big surgery at the time, and I was in a lot of physical pain as well as emotional. I had no other romance in my life and saw no prospect of one. I had loved my husband very much, and I didn’t fall in love easily.

Of course, as regular readers here know, after a while I did have another relationship – with Gerard – but not another marriage.

It’s my observation that most long marriages that end do so for one of two reasons, and often for both of them. The first is what “Rufus” mentions: the empty nest changing the marital equation. The other is that one of the spouses has found someone else, or at least thinks that he or she has found someone else who’s much better than the spouse of whom he or she has grown weary.

There’s a lyric in a Jackson Browne song that covers that situation rather well, I think:

But when you see through love’s illusions, there lies the danger
And your perfect lover just looks like a perfect fool
So you go running off in search of a perfect stranger
All the loneliness seems to spring from your life
Like a fountain from a pool …

“A perfect stranger” is a phrase that takes on new meaning there, doesn’t it?

I know next to nothing about what happened in Lileks’ marriage to end it. It may not fit the scenario I just outlined. But I believe that most later-life divorces do. I wish him well. Most people recover, more or less; sometimes very well. But some never do.

[NOTE: I wrote a piece a while back that touches on some of this, in particular the empty nest phenomenon; please see this.]

Posted in Blogging and bloggers, Me, myself, and I, Men and women; marriage and divorce and sex | 56 Replies

It’s Halloween

The New Neo Posted on October 31, 2025 by neoOctober 31, 2025

[Note: This is an edited version of a previous post.]

Halloween was my favorite holiday, bar none, as a child.

The main reason was probably the candy. But the secondary reason – and perhaps it even superseded the candy, come to think of it – was the opportunity even as a little kid to get dressed up in a costume and go out in the dark with other kids, prowling around the neighborhood and ringing doorbells.

Alone, with no adults present after we attained the ripe old age of 4 or 5.

Those days are gone. And not just for me – since I’m not a kid anymore – but for children these days. Everyone under twelve or so has an adult escort or escorts.

But it’s still a lot of fun to see the kids in their costumes, especially the little ones. Which I plan to do in a little while.

I wish I was with my grandchildren, though.

Posted in Me, myself, and I | 27 Replies

Our old friend Judge Boasberg enabled Arctic Frost

The New Neo Posted on October 31, 2025 by neoOctober 31, 2025

Remember Boasberg? I do. My first mention of him on this blog was back in 2015, concerning his ultra-liberal rulings on illegal immigration. Here’s a list of all the posts in which I mention Boasberg; there are quite a few.

And here he is again:

The subpoena [in Arctic Frost] requested records and communications related to over 430 individual and organizations — all of them appear to be aimed at Republicans,” the Iowa Republican [Grassley] added, noting requests sent to the late conservative icon Charlie Kirk’s Turning Point USA and the Republican Attorneys General Association.

Sen. Ted Cruz (R-Texas), one of the nine Republicans whose phone metadata was sought, said “Arctic Frost is Joe Biden’s Watergate.”

“Merrick Garland was a fundamentally corrupt attorney general. Jack Smith was a fundamentally corrupt prosecutor. This was a political enemies list from the beginning,” he told reporters, brandishing the court order that demanded AT&T hand over his cell records to the feds.

The order was signed by US District Court Chief Judge James Boasberg and barred the cell carrier from letting Cruz know about the request “for at least one year,” he said.

The Texas Republican and others called for Boasberg’s impeachment in the House, with Cruz claiming the judge was “abusing his power” by asserting in the order there were “reasonable grounds to believe that such disclosure will result in destruction of or tampering with evidence, intimidation of potential witnesses and serious jeopardy to the investigation.” …

“If a judge signs an order reaching a factual conclusion for which there is zero evidence whatsoever, that judge is abusing his power. I am right now calling on the House of Representatives to impeach Judge Boasberg.”

Boasberg issued a scathing order against the Trump administration earlier this year to halt deportation flights of alleged MS-13, Tren de Aragua and other gang members from the US to a Salvadoran mega-prison.

The MSM doesn’t seem to be covering this; certainly not in the way it deserves. If Watergate had occurred under a Democrat administration, it would have been a nothingburger in the MSM as well.

But impeachment won’t lead to conviction in the Senate, for obvious reasons: no Democrat would vote for it. Attorney “Shipwreckedcrew” writes, however:

Impeachment by the House, even if a conviction in the Senate is unlikely, would have the salutary effect of having the entire episode aired publicly, and forcing the Dem. Senators to vote in such a way that has them affirm their approval of this kind of effort against sitting Senators of the opposition party.

unfortunately, I believe Democrat voters would applaud. That’s what it’s come to.

Posted in Law, Liberals and conservatives; left and right | Tagged Ted Cruz | 14 Replies

Open thread 10/31/2025

The New Neo Posted on October 31, 2025 by neoOctober 31, 2025

Posted in Uncategorized | 19 Replies

News roundup

The New Neo Posted on October 30, 2025 by neoOctober 30, 2025

(1) Continuing horrific massacres in Sudan don’t seem to engender demonstrations from the left. It’s not “Palestine,” after all, so it doesn’t really matter to them.

(2) Bari Weiss continues changing the makeup of CBS: “Purge Begins at CBS; Biased Trump-Deranged Anchor John Dickerson Out, Gayle King Says She’s Leaving, Trump-Deranged and “Geriatric” 60 Minutes Facing Shake-Up.”

(3) Bill Gates’ climate change change:

In the letter, Gates called out the “doomsday view” of climate change and said leaders need to make a “strategic pivot” to focus on issues that have the “greatest impact on human welfare.”

“It’s the best way to ensure that everyone gets a chance to live a healthy and productive life no matter where they’re born, and no matter what kind of climate they’re born into,” he wrote.

Breakthrough Energy, Gates’ climate-focused investment fund, reportedly cut dozens of staffers earlier this year.

(4) On the NY Times’ lies, in which John Hinderaker points out an entire Times article in which virtually nothing is correct.

Not all that unusual for the gray lady.

(5) Trump says there’s a deal with China. Here’s what one writer says:

The U.S.-China deal is actually a one-year truce that will avoid the 100% penalty Trump threatened to slap on China. The question is whether China will follow through. Often they don’t. No matter. With $525 billion of exports to the U.S. in 2024, America is by far China’s largest trading partner, which gives Trump leverage if China tries trade war tactics again. …

… Xi agreed to open up [on rare earths], but Trump is playing the long game to cut China’s market share by boosting global production from friends and allies. …

… Xi pledged to catch up this year [on soybean purchases] and then buy 25 million tons annually …

… Here’s the deal [on AI chips]. Sales = profits = investment = dominant global market share = beating China. …

… Trump has drawn in upwards of $18 trillion in investment commitments [from Asian countries] for everything from shipyards to AI data centers and aluminum smelting. …

… The big miss of this trip, sadly, will be Ukraine. Trump tried. “Ukraine came up very strongly. We talked about it for a long time,” he told reporters aboard Air Force One. Trump said Xi is, “going to help us, and we’re going to work together on Ukraine.” Don’t hold your breath. Xi has kept the Russian war machine going with oil purchases and microelectronics. He could get North Koreans out of the Ukraine battle with one phone call. China doesn’t care if Russians and Ukrainians are dying and Europe is in a panic.

Posted in Uncategorized | 23 Replies

New Yorkers are already moving to Connecticut in anticipation of a Mamdani win

The New Neo Posted on October 30, 2025 by neoOctober 30, 2025

Trying to beat the mad rush:

As Democratic Socialist Zohran Mamdani surges ahead in New York City’s mayoral race, residents are racing to secure homes in the leafy, affluent enclaves of Connecticut and Westchester County — driven by anxieties over potential policy shifts that could reshape the city’s economic and social fabric.

Real-estate brokers in these suburban markets report a frenzy reminiscent of the early pandemic exodus, with properties vanishing in days amid fierce competition and all-cash deals that push prices far beyond expectations.

In Greenwich, long home to the well-heeled, available listings have dwindled to historic lows, hovering around 117 from more than 800 a few years earlier. It has fueled intense rivalries even for multimillion-dollar estates.

They’ll have egg on their faces, I suppose, if he somehow loses. But I don’t think he will lose.

Why don’t they move further away? I guess because they want to keep their NYC jobs and access, and are willing to commute. It will be fascinating – if Mamdani is in fact elected – to see if there’s a massive exodus from New York or not. The rich have more options than the poor, as usual.

Perhaps we’ll also see Staten Island – the only conservative borough of New York – really get serious about seceding from the city, something it’s talked about for many decades. Staten Island also has a much smaller population than the other boroughs, and is often called “the forgotten borough” of New York. But Staten Island is a huge Trump stronghold, having voted for him in all three presidential elections in which he’s run. He got abut 2/3 of the Staten Island vote in 2024, for example.

Posted in Politics | 40 Replies

What happened to Bill Kristol?

The New Neo Posted on October 30, 2025 by neoOctober 30, 2025

First, a disclaimer: I don’t have the definitive answer. Second: why would I care? I guess it’s because I’m interested in what makes people tick, and especially interested in political change. Most such change goes from left to right. But someone like Kristol – who was thought to be a leading conservative thinker for many years, and who much later in life changed from supposedly right to effectively left – is of some interest.

What made me think of him today was this Instapundit post mentioning that Kristol has come out for Mamdani, and asking, “Did @BillKristol ever believe anything he said he did for decades?” My answer: it depends on what you mean by the word believe.”

Let me add that I was slightly acquainted with Kristol, having met him perhaps twice – one time of which involved sitting very near him at a table of about eight people, for a dinner after a talk he gave. I also wrote for the online Weekly Standard for some years, and would submit articles to him (the articles still exist, with format somewhat strained, at this URL at the Washington Examiner, in case you’re interested in ancient history). My observation is that he certainly appeared to believe what he was saying, although his personality wasn’t what you’d call intense.

Kristol was a Harvard guy, however, who moved in those circles for quite a while. And he was what you might call a legacy conservative. His father was a leading neoconservative (that is, a left-to-right changer) and his mother Gertrude Himmelfarb was a conservative academic historian and author. Bill Kristol’s Wiki page (at the top of which you can find the unintentionally humorous “Not to be confused with Billy Crystal”) notes his career and then his NeverTrumper credentials. But it’s one thing to not like Trump; it’s another to be okay with Mamdani.

Quite a journey. The easiest explanation – money – doesn’t quite do it for me. My guess is that the legacy aspect of Kristol’s conservatism made it perhaps rather shallow, and if you look at his history he was a fan of McCain, for example, and was the kind of neocon who advocated for military interventions. So he was more of a Republican than a conservative.

Trump offended him in some essential and deep way. But why the swing to the left? It was not his children, as far as I can tell. His son works for Tom Cotton and his daughter is married to Matthew Continetti, who is a Trump supporter (at least, according to recent articles he wrote such as this one). I wonder how Thanksgiving goes in their family? Haven’t seen much information about his wife’s politics, so I can’t speak to that.

Kristol’s father died in 2009, before Kristol’s political change. But his mother lived to be 97, dying in 2019. Is that a clue? Did his full political conversion only happen when his mother was deceased? One telling fact may be that, although Kristol hated Trump from the very start, he didn’t vote for Hillary Clinton but did vote for Biden and then Harris; both votes occurred after the death of his mother. Did that death enable him to cut the final cord with his parents’ viewpoints? He also no longer calls himself a Republican. And although he’s continued to support Israel, as far as I can tell, I see no evidence that he’s religious.

Here’s the fuller text of his explanation for supporting Mamdani; he said it in an interview. His reasoning doesn’t make all that much sense and is extraordinarily shallow as well as pretty meaningless, since Kristol lives in Virginia and can’t vote in the mayoral election at all. But here’s an excerpt:

… Abigail Spanberger, who I think will win in November, is really excellent. It might be Sherrill, actually, in New Jersey, excellent. And so, part of my core praise for Mamdani has been that, you know what, if we elect three Democrats who win in November—the three big races, really—and it’s Spanberger or Sherrill and Mamdani? That’s okay. …

… [T]he idea of going back to Cuomo is just, I think, ridiculous. I think if it had been the first round, I would’ve voted for someone else and maybe wouldn’t have even ranked Mamdani and would’ve had other people who were more centrist, liberal types.

It was very disappointing. All these big shot, you know, finance types in New York, they couldn’t get behind anyone except for Andrew Cuomo. It’s really pathetic, in my opinion. So now they’re rallying to Cuomo with some of them, but I don’t have that much sympathy for that.

And I also just think, practically speaking, New York is a huge city. He’s not going to destroy it, I don’t think. He’s gonna set up five silly government-run grocery stores, I guess. I don’t think he even will do that [inaudible]. And so they’ll be fine. So there’ll be some grocery store somewhere and it won’t be as good as the privately run ones, and it will go out of business in three years and it’ll be a little bit of a waste of taxpayer money, you know? Or it’ll be harmless, you know? And so people—I do think the right’s reaction to Mamdani has been a little hysterical. He’s a very impressive politician. I don’t know that he’s going to be a very good mayor. He’s 33 years old, he’s never run anything. They’re good people who could work for him though, in New York.

Huh? So, whatever.

Posted in People of interest, Political changers, Politics | 41 Replies

Having a tiny bit of computer trouble today

The New Neo Posted on October 30, 2025 by neoOctober 30, 2025

More of a slowdown than anything else. It’s coming along, but I’ll use it as an excuse for late posting.

Meanwhile I’ll just observe here that we turn the clocks back this weekend, which means it will get dark very early here. Ugh.

But the good news is that, in a bit over a month, sunsets will be getting later again. Looking on the bright side. And yes, I know the winter solstice – the shortest day – is later than that. But the earliest sundown comes in early December.

Posted in Uncategorized | 8 Replies

It’s that time again – National Candy Corn Day

The New Neo Posted on October 30, 2025 by neoOctober 29, 2025

[NOTE: This post is a slightly-edited repeat of a post from 2008.]

No, I didn’t make it up. It really is National Candy Corn Day, the day “the nation celebrates its favorite vegetable.”

No doubt all of my readers, being unusually well-informed people, were already aware of that. But did you know it is estimated that in this country thirty-five million pounds of the classic treat (invented in the 1880s) are sold every year? And by the way, my original post from 2008 had the number at twenty million, according to the same Wiki link, so the number had nearly doubled by 2016, the year of the most recent update at the site.

I personally might be responsible for approximately a ton of that if I gave in to my worst impulses. However, I keep my addiction in tightly-controlled check.

It is part of my penance to confess here that I really love the dreadful stuff and always have, and I’m far from alone (my impression is that candy corn is one of those things a person either loves or hates). Once I even went to a Halloween party dressed as a piece of candy corn, and believe me I was already a grownup. In fact, I’m planning to dress that way again this year. The first time I did it, no one guessed what I was supposed to be, although I thought it was obvious.

Apparently I am not the only adult who has dressed up as candy corn on Halloween. And no, I didn’t look like this—more’s the pity (although to be technical, isn’t she dressed as two pieces of candy corn, the body and the hat?):

candycorncostume.gif

I heard on Fox News (can’t give a link here because I was unable to find the information online) that candy corn is the Halloween treat most often stolen by parents from their kids’ Halloween stash. I believe this to be undeniably true. It is a guilty, shameful secret for most, but I am glad this is finally seeing the light of day.

There are various gourmet variations on candy corn, and I’ve sampled quite a few in my day. A helpful reader sent me some information about this Brach product for example, which includes:

Green Beans, Roasted Turkey, Cranberry Sauce, Stuffing, Apple Pie and Coffee. (Fans of Ginger Glazed Carrots, which were part of last year’s batch, should note that flavor is gone.)

I had tried the earlier version, and it was terrible. This sounds even worse. It’s the good old Brach’s original candy corn that I continue to crave; there is no other brand worth eating, and believe me I’ve tried many a substitute. The Brach’s version been sold out where I live for quite some time, but I purchased it early.

And here’s a burning question: do you eat your candy corn in sections? And, if so, do you consider the top to be the yellow part or the white part? I’ve always seen the little white triangle as the “foot” of the candy corn, but I learned when I designed my costume years ago that most people see it the other way. For those who might be inclined to disagree with me, I offer the following exhibit from the realm of science; the kernel grows with the tip – corresponding to the white part of the candy – down, embedded in the cob:

corn-components.jpg

Posted in Food, Me, myself, and I | 14 Replies

Open thread 10/30/2025

The New Neo Posted on October 30, 2025 by neoOctober 30, 2025

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