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My mother and the telephone

The New Neo Posted on October 19, 2011 by neoOctober 19, 2011

I call my 97-year-old mother every couple of days. We talk, but the talks have a certain ritual quality.

They nearly always begin with her asking me, “How are you and where are you?” Then they segue into old reliable, the weather. Then I ask her what she’s been doing and she is politely vague—perhaps to cover the fact that she can’t recall, or that she hasn’t been doing all that much. “Oh, been keeping busy.” “Can’t complain.” “This and that.” I tell her any news I think she might be interested in: about my son, or her nieces and nephews, or a trip. Then she hurries to sign off, usually with some affectionate words. If the conversation lasts two minutes, it’s a long one.

It’s clear she’s happy to hear from me. But it’s just as clear that she’s no longer comfortable talking on the telephone. This is quite a change from a woman long-renowned (and teased) for her extreme love of the medium. For much of my life she called me every day or nearly every day, and we’d often have long talks.

But a couple of years ago the phone calls from her end stopped rather abruptly. It seemed that it was just something she didn’t think to do any more, rather than something she didn’t want to do, because she still always seems happy to hear from me. It’s just that initiation of actions has become much less likely. Whether it’s “out of sight, out of mind” or something else (her increasing deafness?) I have no idea. But it’s still a shock that I’m the one having to call my mother rather than vice versa.

This last time we spoke she ended with an interesting sign-off: “I’ll be in touch as soon as I can.” Yes, I suppose she will. But it depends on what the meaning of “can” is.

In the meantime, it’s up to me. I’m just grateful that she knows where she is, who she is, who we are, and seems to be pretty happy, all things considered. At 97, that’s quite a bit.

Posted in Me, myself, and I | 24 Replies

What do Americans know about the Republican candidates?

The New Neo Posted on October 19, 2011 by neoOctober 19, 2011

Probably not all that much, according to this WaPo/Pew poll. Large percentages of respondents answered “no opinion/other” when questioned as to whether they had a positive or negative opinion of Cain, Perry, and Romney.

That makes a lot of sense to me, since I can’t quite imagine that most people are closely following the race or the debates at this point.

However, a great many respondents knew at least one salient thing about each of the three men. Cain? “Businessman.” Perry? “Texas.” And Romney? “Mormon.” And a significant number of people (15%) mentioned “idiot” or “idiotic” to describe Perry, as well as “flip-flopper” for Romney (13%), whereas Cain’s highest negative descriptor (12%) was “not experienced.”

Posted in Uncategorized | 16 Replies

HCR: repeal and replace

The New Neo Posted on October 18, 2011 by neoOctober 18, 2011

I’m glad to see that Republicans are busy strategizing how to repeal Obamacare after the 2012 elections. I hope they aren’t assuming that Republicans will have to win both Congress and the White House in order for that to occur, because I believe there is grave doubt about both but especially the latter.

I’m also glad to see that the “replace” part of the equation is not being neglected:

Other conservative healthcare experts are developing an alternative to the law, an effort that could protect Republicans from past critiques that their healthcare plans left tens of millions of Americans without medical coverage.

“The window for action comes and goes,” said Tom Miller, a senior fellow at the American Enterprise Institute, one of several conservative groups involved in the effort. “We need to be ready.”

When Republicans were (briefly) in charge of both the presidency and Congress, they should have tried harder to put their own solutions in place. If they had succeeded (and it is unclear whether they would have), the HCR debacle might have been pre-empted.

Contrary to leftist rhetoric, Republicans do not thirst for the deaths of granny or the poor; the problem is that there is no free—or even inexpensive—health care lunch. From now on, Republicans had better be a lot more smart than in the past, and a lot more focused. But if health care insurance reform had been easy to design without massive expense, it would have been accomplished a lot sooner.

Posted in Health care reform | 32 Replies

National Book Award oopsies

The New Neo Posted on October 18, 2011 by neoOctober 18, 2011

And the moral of the story is: give your book a name that has more than one word in it.

Posted in Uncategorized | 3 Replies

Happiness and pain: Shalit returns home

The New Neo Posted on October 18, 2011 by neoOctober 18, 2011

Looking more like the 19-year-old he was when he was abducted rather than the 25-year-old he is now, Gilad Shalit has returned home.

I’ve already written about the conundrum such cases represent. But one thing that cannot be doubted is how happy his parents must be to see him, and how relieved he is to be home, although he’ll have a lot of healing and adjusting to do.

As for Netanyahu and Israel, it’s considerably more mixed:

Netanyahu told reporters that the case of the abducted soldier was among the toughest he inherited when he assumed office 2 1 / 2 years ago. He said Israel had paid a “heavy price” to secure Shalit’s release.

“On this day,” Netanyahu said, “all of us are united in happiness and pain.”

…Israeli officials offered a subdued homecoming ceremony for Shalit, reflecting their concern about the Palestinian militants who were being freed…

Meanwhile, for the Palestinians and the Arab world, it’s unalloyed happiness—and triumph. Everything has worked out exactly as planned, and hostage-taking has been richly rewarded, as it has many times before [emphasis mine]:

The first busloads of released Palestinians, including women, crossed the border into Egypt around the same time Shalit was handed over to the Israelis. The Palestinians were taken to Gaza and the West Bank, where jubilant crowds awaited them…

In Gaza, buses transporting the freed prisoners arrived about midday. Crowds of Hamas fighters, including some of the men who kidnapped Shalit in 2006, were among the well-wishers. Relatives swarmed over the buses looking for their loved ones.

The crowds in Gaza City exhorted militants to seize more soldiers for future swaps, the Associated Press reported. “The people want a new Gilad,” thousands chanted at a rally for the freed Palestinian prisoners.

Now, that’s a cycle of violence—and appeasement.

Posted in Israel/Palestine, Terrorism and terrorists | 23 Replies

Cain’s popularity with Tea Partiers doesn’t show they’re not racists…

The New Neo Posted on October 17, 2011 by neoOctober 17, 2011

…because Cain hates black people, too.

You can’t make this stuff up, unless you’re the Onion. But unfortunately, Clarence Page doesn’t work for the Onion.

Posted in Race and racism | 44 Replies

Death at the Speedway

The New Neo Posted on October 17, 2011 by neoOctober 17, 2011

I’ve never liked auto racing, but I know that millions love it. But back when I was in college, I plowed through a biography of Stirling Moss, Formula One racer, because for a time I had a boyfriend who was a huge fan and I wanted to try to get with the program.

The only thing I remember from the book is a fact that you racing fans think may think is completely obvious, but to me it was not: Moss observed that the difference between dying and winning a race can be to take curves a tenth of an MPH faster or slower, while the difference between winning and losing the race can be the same.

To me it was chilling, but to those who love the sport it’s thrilling.

I had occasion to think of this again when I heard of the crash at yesterday’s IndyCar, one of the worst in history, involving 15 cars and causing the death of Britain’s Dan Wheldon, 33, in the fiery wreckage.

Why did it happen? I haven’t watched the video and don’t plan to, but even if I had I don’t understand racing well enough to know. But this seems like the best possibility:

Asked about speed after the crash, Wheldon’s former boss Chip Ganassi said, “There’ll be plenty of time in the offseason to talk about that. Now is not the time to talk about that.”

And Franchitti said: “I agree. We’ll discuss that and sort it out.”

But driver Oriol Servia didn’t mince words: “We all had a bad feeling about this place in particular just because of the high banking and how easy it was to go flat. And if you give us the opportunity, we are drivers and we try to go to the front. We race each other hard because that’s what we do,” he said. “We knew if could happen, but it’s just really sad.”

What is too high a risk of dying in a sport such as auto racing, and what should be done about it, if anything? When does sport turn into the Roman Coliseum?

Posted in Baseball and sports | 25 Replies

Where did Michelle Bachmann and her husband fall in love?

The New Neo Posted on October 17, 2011 by neoOctober 17, 2011

(1) At a religious retreat.
(2) In law school.
(3) Working on a kibbutz.
(4) Campaigning for Jimmy Carter.

And the answer is…found at slide 4.

A few more fun facts about spouses and ex-spouses of this year’s GOP presidential contenders and near-contenders:

Newt Gingrich met his first wife in high school—but she was his geometry teacher. They married when he was 19 and she 26 (slide 5).

I had forgotten how exceedingly attractive Todd Palin is (slide 13).

Guiliani’s first wife was his second cousin once removed. He was allowed to get an annulment from the Catholic Church because when he married her, he had thought she was his third cousin (slide 14).

Posted in Men and women; marriage and divorce and sex, Politics | 6 Replies

Sorley: Vietnam and Westmoreland, the first act

The New Neo Posted on October 15, 2011 by neoOctober 15, 2011

A reader has called my attention to the fact that Lewis Sorley has written a new book, a biography of General William Westmoreland, the general who directed what might be called the first act of the portion of the Vietnam War that involved heavy American involvement rather than mere “advisors.” Max Boot reviews the book here.

I had written about Sorley’s earlier work, A Better War, here and here. That book, which evaluates what I have referred to as the second act of the war—the Creighton Abrams/Nixon part rather than the Westmoreland/LBJ part—finds that the former was far more successful than previously thought. Now Sorley directs his formidable research powers to the first act, and not only finds Westmoreland wanting, but discovers that the widely-accepted “narrative” about civilian direction of the war being responsible for many of the failures is just plain wrong. It was Westmoreland who made many of the terrible decisions, all by himself, without much guidance from the “best and the brightest” in DC, although often with their approval and acquiescence:

The subtitle says it all: “The General Who Lost Vietnam.” This judgment flies in the face of the common view””enunciated by no less than George W. Bush and a dominant strain in the 2005 obituaries for Westmoreland””that it was the politicians (with a big assist from the news media) who lost the war. Mr. Sorley makes mincemeat of this myth. While he concedes that Lyndon Johnson was deeply involved in “actions taken outside South Vietnam” (such as the bombing of the North), he argues: “Within South Vietnam, the U.S. commander had very wide latitude in deciding how to fight the war. That was true for Westmoreland, and equally true for his eventual successor.”

It was Westmoreland””not Lyndon Johnson or even Robert McNamara””who decided to fight a “war of attrition,” sending large and cumbersome American formations to thrash through the jungle and rice paddies in search of elusive enemy units. It was Westmoreland who kept demanding more American troops and who encouraged them to fire as many artillery rounds as possible””even if they lacked specific targets. It was Westmoreland who made “body counts” the key metric of the entire war effort in the futile hope that the United States could inflict enough casualties on the Communists to make them cry “Uncle!” He did not seem to realize or care that in the process he was inflicting lesser but still considerable casualties on American forces””and that a democracy like the United States was much more casualty-averse than a one-party dictatorship like North Vietnam.

Why did Westmoreland bungle so badly? It was not, as the most extreme antiwar protesters would have it, because he was a war criminal or psychopath. Mr. Sorley shows that Westmoreland was well-intentioned and conscientious, but also dense, arrogant, vain, humorless and not too honest. Is that too harsh a judgment? You won’t think so if you read all the damning assessments compiled by Mr. Sorley from the late general’s associates. Air Force Gen. Robert Beckel thought that “he seemed rather stupid. He didn’t seem to grasp things or follow the proceedings very well.” Or Army Gen. Charles Simmons: “General Westmoreland was intellectually very shallow and made no effort to study, read, or learn. He would just not read anything. His performance was appalling.”

Those comments were made by officers who worked closely with Westmoreland during his years as Army chief of staff””1968 to 1972””a time when “briefers were dismayed to find that Westmoreland would occupy himself during one-on-one deskside briefings by signing photographs of himself, one after another, while they made their presentations.” But the warnings signs had been apparent long before. In 1964, when Westmoreland was first being considered for an assignment in Vietnam, one general privately warned that “it would be a grave mistake to appoint him”: “He is spit and polish. . . . This is a counterinsurgency war, and he would have no idea how to deal with it.”

Westmoreland’s appointment was further validation of the Peter Principle””that eventually every employee is promoted beyond his level of competence.

Boot’s article is worth reading not just for his observations about Sorley’s book, but about the entire field of Vietnam history, revisionist and otherwise. We will probably be arguing about this stuff for many decades to come. But I have found Sorley’s point of view and knowledge of the subject to be especially impressive.

Posted in Vietnam, War and Peace | 12 Replies

Dropping the CLASS Act fiction

The New Neo Posted on October 15, 2011 by neoOctober 15, 2011

Now that it’s not needed any more to help the CBO score Obamacare as reducing the deficit, the CLASS Act portion of the bill is being dropped and revealed as the dysfunctional charade it always was:

“CLASS is a critical backstop, giving working families a tool to protect themselves from being one illness or injury away from poverty,” said Garner, who directs a group called Advance CLASS Inc. “The president promised to implement this program. We expect him to keep that promise.”

The program was a long-cherished goal of Kennedy, whose support helped ensure that it was folded into the larger health-care measure despite resistance from prominent Democrats and even the White House.

Its path to inclusion was also eased by projections that, at least initially, it would boost the federal balance sheet by tens of billions of dollars. This was because the law barred the program from paying out benefits for the first five years. So by adding the program to the health-care legislation, Democrats were able to substantially increase the deficit savings they could claim for the law as a whole.

The goals of the CLASS Act were and still are laudable. Unfortunately, the financial realities are such that it’s unworkable. That didn’t stop it from being included in the original bill, or for the CBO to use it to score half the deficit savings the HCR bill was supposed to accomplish. Now the truth can be told:

Democrats engineered the program known by the acronym Class with front-loaded premiums and back-loaded benefits so that on paper it threw off a lot of revenue early on but then bankrupted itself later. This design made it possible for the Congressional Budget Office to score the program as a money-raiser during its first decade and thus make ObamaCare look like it reduced the deficit. And sure enough, CBO, in its final estimate at passage, said that Class would reduce the deficit by $70 billion through 2019””or more than half the bill’s supposed $124 billion 10-year “savings” to the federal fisc. Well, goodbye to all that…HHS’s own experts were warning Democrats all along that Class was a fiscal time bomb, so including it in the bill was a special act of fiscal corruption.

Love that phrase “a special act of fiscal corruption”—that is, among the more ordinary acts of fiscal corruption that so often are part of Congress’s dealings, and were particularly prevalent in the passage of Obamacare. And the CBO is part of the problem rather than the solution. As I wrote back in December of 2009:

I was thinking today that the CBO (Congressional Budget Office) serves no useful purpose anymore.

It’s not allowed to tell the truth. Instead, it has become the tool of a Congress willing, eager, and all too skilled at tailoring legislation to achieve a certain desired CBO score based on assumptions everyone knows are invalid. The CBO is not allowed to call Congress on its games when it evaluates bills.

So why bother? The CBO has become a way to give the imprimatur of fiscal propriety to bills that are essentially scams, and the CBO is powerless to do anything but be a yes-man to whatever a clever and duplicitous Congress manages to come up with.

So how about some sort of realistic scoring by the CBO? Is that too much to ask?

Apparently.

Posted in Finance and economics, Health care reform | 6 Replies

Still another reason to love Cary Grant

The New Neo Posted on October 15, 2011 by neoOctober 15, 2011

What he said about politics:

Grant did not think movie stars should publicly make political declarations. Grant described his politics and his reticence about them this way:

“I’m opposed to actors taking sides in public and spouting spontaneously about love, religion, or politics. We aren’t experts on these subjects. Personally I’m a mass of inconsistencies when it comes to politics. My opinions are constantly changing. That’s why I don’t ever take a public stand on issues.”

What a guy.

Posted in Movies | 19 Replies

Why the left fears Cain

The New Neo Posted on October 14, 2011 by neoOctober 14, 2011

There is the obvious reason, which is that he threatens the allegiance of blacks to candidate Obama. That’s why Harry Belafonte is trying to discredit him:

For example, singer and activist Harry Belafonte called Cain a “bad apple” and insinuated he was stupid.

“It’s very hard to comment on somebody who is so denied intelligence, and certainly someone who is as denied a view of history,” Belafonte said. “Because he happened to have had good fortune hit him, because he happened to have had a moment, when he broke through the moment someone blinked, does not make him the authority on the plight of people of color.”

Et tu, Belafonte?

Another reason is that Cain will be able to challenge Obama in ways no white candidate can. For example, when Obama lost the primary against Bobby Rush in 2000 for Rush’s seat in the House, it was in part because of statements like these on Rush’s part:

Barack Obama went to Harvard and became an educated fool. Barack is a person who read about the civil-rights protests and thinks he knows all about it.

Ouch.

Posted in Politics, Race and racism | 62 Replies

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