Coming of age in the sexual marketplace

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Ace describes a new movie about coming of age in the digital era:

There’s a documentary called Sexy Baby, directed by a couple of women interested in exploring current sexual mores. (Trailer here: Content Warning.)

There are several storylines, two of which are particularly interesting. The one that’s relevant here is 12-year-old Winnifred’s story. She’s very precocious, and “gets it” on an adult level. She notes, for example, that FaceBook and other social media pictures of girls must always at least include the suggestion of being open for sex — of being “DTF,” as she says. (Down to F***.)

She says (or implies) that she’s rather trapped by the current market forces, in which boys just won’t take an interest in girls who don’t broadcast that sexual availability.

Remember, she’s 12.

The trailer is one of the saddest things I’ve ever seen.

Ace goes on to note that feminists generally attack those who attack this system, calling that “slut-shaming” and accusing them of blaming the girls.

Feminists, of course, are actually at least partly responsible for the problem, telling girls it’s liberating to sleep around, which helps lead to the skewing of teenage sexual behavior more to the adolescent male ideal—with a vast vast assist from the internet.

It’s a mess, and the hookup culture among teens that I wrote about here is arriving at earlier and earlier ages, and fueled by the visual stimuli of easily-available porn on computers. Individual teens can resist it if they are very strong, but the pull and pressures to give in to it (whatever a girl or a boy might secretly wish to do or not do) is incredibly powerful. It’s one thing to know that holding off from easy sex at a very young age will protect you and help you in the end. It’s another to actually have the strength to do so.

Christie down, Walker next?

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Now that Chris Christie’s candidacy seems to have been damaged, even though there is still no proof (or even evidence) that he knew what his aides were doing in Bridgegate, next on the list is Wisconsin’s Scott Walker.

Walker is rightly perceived as being a strong contender for 2016 on the Republican side. In fact, as I’ve said several times, he’s my favorite for the nomination at the moment. So it stands to reason that he and anyone who ever had anything to do with him will be investigated and investigated and investigated until something is found on him or on someone connected with him. A connection will do, because the assumption for a Republican is that he is responsible for every bad act of everyone around him.

No need, really, to point out the contrast with the press’ treatment of President Obama, who has had to deny knowledge of almost everything around him and everything under him, as well as people he was affiliated with and praised (mentor and pastor Reverend Wright comes to mind). But I’ll point it out anyway.

The Christie brouhaha and the Walker aide investigation not only have the goal of trying to bring these particular men down. They also serve as notice to anyone else even thinking of running on the Republican side, letting them know what’s ahead for them, no matter how uncorrupted they may appear to be or how uncorrupted they think they actually are. How many politicians can know exactly what every aide of theirs is doing at all times?

Meanwhile, it’s not okay to look at Hillary Clinton’s actual record or that of her husband, who would be First Man (or whatever it’s called) if she were elected.

In case you’re interested in what WaPo article actually says about the charges against Walker’s aides, here are some quotes:

Wisconsin Gov. Scott Walker, who has been eyeing a 2016 presidential run since his battles with labor unions made him a Republican star, is in the midst of dealing with the fallout of two criminal investigations at home that could complicate his move to the national stage.

One is ongoing, and while the other is now closed with no allegations of wrongdoing by Walker, it has the lingering potential to embarrass him.

The article goes on to describe the hopefulness that just oozes out of Democrats who no doubt will be doing their best to use guilt by association against Walker if actual guilt cannot be found despite all the effort:

Prosecutors said then that Walker was not a target, and he was not charged.

But Wisconsin Democrats hope the new e-mails could still prove politically harmful to Walker, perhaps providing examples of times when he appeared to be aware of the router or of political work being performed on the county’s dime.

Democratic officials in the state are salivating over the chance to draw comparisons to Christie, who enjoyed an image among national Republicans as a stand-up fighter for conservative causes until internal e-mails revealed a plot by aides to create a massive traffic jam as possible political retribution against a Democratic mayor.

The salivation is not just limited to Wisconsin Democrats. Note, also, the article’s ridiculous characterization of Christie’s pre-scandal standing, stating that he had “enjoyed an image among national Republicans as a stand-up fighter for conservative causes.” The writer, Rosalind S. Helderman, is either abysmally ignorant of Republican and conservative opinion or purposely misrepresenting it. I vote for the latter.

The goal of this all is not just to discredit Walker. Most Republicans and conservatives will continue to support him, unless a smoking gun is found, which it almost certainly won’t be. Liberal Democrats weren’t going to vote for him anyway, although they’ll enjoy trashing him some more. It’s moderate Democrats and Independents, and especially those so-called low information voters, who are the particular intended audience. Something vaguely scandalous around Walker can serve to lower his appeal (which rested at least in part on his perceived integrity) to swing voters, and that would be exceedingly valuable to liberals and the left.

Gay marriage and liberty: on the slippery slope

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A law protecting the rights of vendors to refuse to provide services to same sex-couples in the context of marrying or celebrating their marriages was passed in the Kansas House and killed in the Kansas Senate. So it’s now moot, at least for Kansas, which doesn’t allow gay marriage anyway but was intent on protecting such vendors from lawsuits.

But the debate around the bill reveals something that those familiar with the left and gay marriage activists’ m.o. already knew: that gay marriage was only the start, and the intent was always to force people not only to allow it in the legal sense but to fully accept it in every sense, whatever their religious beliefs may be.

I’ve skimmed quite a few articles in the MSM about the bill, and all of them so far have had headlines and ledes that have mischaracterized it, always in the same way. A USA Today piece by Kirsten Powers is typical of the genre. Headlined “Jim Crow laws for gays and lesbians?”, it says that the Kansas statute is a “bill protecting the religious freedom of businesses and individuals to refuse services to same-sex couples.” No, not across the board; the bill only applies to a refusal of services around the celebration of same-sex marriages.

Powers’ column at least goes on to speak mostly of marriage, although she never clarifies that the bill is limited to those services. She also confuses the fact that Christians may indeed choose to help perform or service the marriage of gay people with the fact that they should not be compelled by law to do so.

Also typical is this one from CNN, which begins this way:

Denying services to same-sex couples may soon become legal in Kansas.

House Bill 2453 explicitly protects religious individuals, groups and businesses that refuse services to same-sex couples, particularly those looking to tie the knot.

No, not particularly those looking to tie the knot. Only those looking to tie the knot. That’s a big, big difference.

The following was the wording of the bill, which occurs way way down towards the end of the lengthy CNN article, down where most people will not be reading it:

No individual or religious entity shall be required by any governmental entity to do any of the following, if it would be contrary to the sincerely held religious beliefs of the individual or religious entity regarding sex or gender:

“Provide any services, accommodations, advantages, facilities, goods, or privileges; provide counseling, adoption, foster care and other social services; or provide employment or employment benefits, related to, or related to the celebration of, any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement.”

Anyone who turns away a gay couple not only can’t face a civil suit, but if anyone tries to sue, they could get nailed with the other side’s legal fees.

There are some small concession in the bill to gay couples.

If an employee at a nonreligious or government business refuses to serve a gay or lesbian couple for religious reasons, the manager is obligated to find another employee who will oblige.

It also explicitly says that the law does not authorize discrimination against anyone, including clergy, who performs or supports same-sex unions.

This, of course, is not analogous to refusing to serve a person because of his/her race or even because of his/her sexual orientation, although those are the analogies from the same-sex marriage lobby.

Christian belief does posit marriage as being between a man and a woman, and has for millennia, as has Western society as a whole. Until a few years ago very few people questioned that.

I’ve written before that I personally have no problem with gay people marrying. But I have a huge problem with compelling Christians to be part of such celebrations or face lawsuits or the loss of their businesses. And I have a huge problem with propaganda that misrepresents what those who oppose gay marriage are suggesting and why. But such propaganda doesn’t surprise me in the least, nor should it surprise anyone else.

About a year ago I wrote, in a lengthy piece about gay marriage:

I’m not personally a follower of a religion or religious subdivision that still subscribes to such beliefs in the literal sense. But I respect religious people and think I understand the reasons for their objections to same sex marriage. I believe that…SSM [same-sex marriage] is merely one step in a long “progressive” march towards the eradication of religion and/or its demonization (a word that has an ironic twist in this context, does it not?).

I see absolutely no reason to change my mind.

Hillary Clinton’s past

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Absurd to have to discuss whether Hillary Clinton’s past is fair game if she runs in 2016.

The answer is “of course it is.”

And of course the press and the left knows this full well. The game being played is the usual one of setting up double standards for the different sides in terms of what’s allowed and what’s criticized. Part of this game is the simultaneous lauding of a Democratic member of a favored victim group (in this case, women) as strong and yet at the same time in need of special protection because of his/her victim status.

Obama has been the template. The only difference is the victim group in question; for Obama it’s African-Americans. Any discussion of his past (or any criticism of him at all, really) is racist, just as any discussion of Hillary will be sexist.

Count on it.

And count on the rules being reversed for Republican women and Republican African-Americans.

Spanish productivity: night and day, day and night

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They’re trying to make Spain into Germany or something, to increase productivity. I don’t think they’ll succeed in changing the clock, but even if they do, will it change “productivity”? And are Spaniards any less productive than much of the rest of Europe, anyway?

“We want to see a more efficient culture,” said Ignacio Buqueras, the most outspoken advocate of changing the Spanish schedule. “Spain has to break the bad habits it has accumulated over the past 40 or 50 years.”…

Whether an earlier, more regimented schedule will translate into higher productivity is a matter of dispute. Mr. Buqueras’s group says Spanish workers are on the job longer than German workers but complete only 59 percent of their daily tasks. Measuring productivity is an imprecise science, and while many experts say Spanish productivity is too low, Spain actually outperforms many European countries in some calculations, according to Eurostat, the European Union’s statistical agency.

“These three-hour siestas don’t exist,” said Carlos Angulo Marté­n, who oversees social analysis at the National Statistics Institute in Madrid. Nor are habits uniform across the country, he said…

I haven’t been to Europe in quite some time, but it seems to me that Spain is hardly alone in this. I seem to recall that Italy used to have a similar schedule, and that France was the land of the leisurely lunch.

But in my not-very-extensive world travels, the country I’ve spent a bit of time in, and which I remember as having a fairly extreme version of the Spanish schedule, is Argentina. I have no idea what it’s like now, but several decades ago one could stroll on the boulevards and in the parks of a summer eve (our winter) at 11 PM and see families with young children all spiffied up and on their way to dinner at one of the ubiquitous steak houses (more like arenas) that seemed to be everywhere.

And the long leisurely lunch offers food, if not for thought, then for relaxation and conviviality:

One friend, Miguel Carbayo, 26, was appalled at the notion of a nap-free lunch. He had worked as an intern in the Netherlands, where his co-workers arrived at 8 and left at 5, with a half-hour to munch on a sandwich for lunch, a regimen he found shocking.

“Reduce lunchtime?” he said. “No, I’m completely against that. It is one thing to eat. It is another thing to nourish oneself. Our culture and customs are our way of living.”

But over time the world is becoming more and more homogenized.

Avoiding the re-education camps at McGill

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How? Apologize:

Oppression, as outlined in SSMU’s Equity Policy, means the exercise of power by a group of people over another group of people with specific consideration of cultural, historical and living legacies. The image in question was an extension of the cultural, historical and living legacy surrounding people of color””particularly young men””being portrayed as violent in contemporary culture and media. By using this particular image of President Obama, I unknowingly perpetuated this living legacy and subsequently allowed a medium of SSMU’s communication to become the site of a microaggression; for this, I am deeply sorry.

But it was all right, everything was all right, the struggle was finished. He had won the victory over himself.

Trolls just want to have sadistic fun

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They take pleasure in your pain.

Well, of course. It takes time and effort to be a troll. And it takes a bit of time and effort to get rid of them. That’s their sport: annoying you, trying to hurt you, and distracting you into the bargain.

I learned early in my internet experience—way way before I became a blogger—that there are online sadists. I observed one of them do his intensely destructive business on a website that dealt with various illnesses, a discussion board type thing.

I was there because of my arm injury. At the time (mid-90s), it was one of the few places I could find information about it and compare notes with other people who had a similar chronic problem. This troll terrorized people (and “terrorized” is not too extreme a word) who were in a different section of the forum, one that dealt with mental health problems. His m.o. was to befriend them, start a personal email correspondence with them and get them to bare their souls to him, and then after being helpful and kind for a long time—in some cases, years—slam them in an unmercifully abusive fashion and reveal the deepest secrets of their wounded hearts to others on the board.

The forum wasn’t properly patrolled at the time by its administrators, so a few of us set out to try to deal with the troll. Ultimately that campaign was successful, at least online: he was banned. But the destruction he had already done was incalculable.

And that’s why I have no trouble thinking that some trolls are sadists.

Not spambots, though. Spambots are helpful.

Spambot of the day

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Bot who’s only doing it to help you:

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The day Venezuela died

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Hugo Chavez is dead, but his legacy lives on.

And that means that Venezuela is in a heap of trouble:

The suddenness of Venezuela’s collapse should have come as no surprise because downfalls are inherently abrupt…Imagine there’s no money to keep up the sovereign bond payments, the only source of money to keep power plants going.

Welcome to Hugo Chavez’s Venezuela, a country with the fifth largest oil reserves in the world and absolutely broke. It’s a remarkable achievement for Chavismo. A just-wow moment. Socialism is useless at everything except for smashing things in record time.

As Margaret Thatcher famously said: The problem with socialism is that you eventually run out of other people’s money. “Eventually” seems far away—until it arrives.

So, what happened? This:

High oil prices funded Mr. Chavez’s “Bolivarian revolution” over the past 14 years. He made massive investments in health and education; because the government releases almost no reliable data, it is debatable how much impact these had on human development, but they did inspire a belief in redistribution and justice, and ensured his huge popularity.

But since Mr. Chavez’s death nearly a year ago, it has become apparent that his hand-picked successor, Nicolas Maduro, lacks his charisma. Meanwhile, the safety net is starting to tatter. Production by the national oil company, Petroleos de Venezuela, S.A, or PDVSA, is declining, although the government won’t say by how much. The company is crippled by debt, has no cash to invest in operations, must operate on the posted exchange rate, and has been turned into a bizarre do-everything organization that makes jam and processed chicken, builds houses and runs neighbourhood health clinics.

As uncertainty grows, Venezuelans must adapt to an ever-shifting reality. In the middle and upper class, this means cultivating friendships with grocery store clerks who text you when a shipment of butter comes in; shopping on credit cards, because the bolivare, the national currency, will be worth even less when the bill comes due; and sinking cash into hard assets such as a used car, if you can find one (the official waiting list at dealerships is years long.)

Even before President Obama was elected in 2008 I wrote that he was showing Chavez-like tendencies. I have never seen any reason to revise that notion; it has only strengthened. Reading the Globe and Mail article I quoted above, I am struck in particular by this seemingly unimportant quote, “the government releases almost no reliable data.” That’s been especially true of Obamacare and the present administration, as I pointed out last Thursday. Far more than ever before in my memory, domestic statistics released by the government have become almost pure propaganda, and few on right or left trust them.

But bluffing can only get you so far. Sooner or later economic reality comes to call.

Can Venezuela right itself? Richard Fernandez thinks it may have reached a point of no return:

The problem with Venezuela is that Chavismo has left people with nowhere else to go. It’s burned the bridges. There’s no reopening the car plants or restarting the factories, or even repairing the power plants. The engineers have all emigrated to Alberta, Canada.

Fernandez then notes that something similar has happened in Syria, for different reasons. And in Detroit:

Detroit had posted the lowest math scores in the history of the National Assessment of Educational Progress.

“These numbers are only slightly better than what one would expect by chance as if the kids had never gone to school and simply guessed at the answers,” said Michael Casserly, executive director of the Washington-based Council of the Great City Schools, which represents large urban school districts. “These numbers ”¦ are shocking and appalling and should not be allowed to stand.”

“Should not.” But what’s to be done? Has Detroit passed some point of no return?

It is easier to destroy than to build. Much easier. That’s true whether destruction is your goal or not. And if you’re blinded by the need to stick to your ideology and declare it a success no matter what the truth is, you may not even know what’s going on until Humpty Dumpty finally takes that tumble.

[ADDENDUM: See also this.]

I’m so excited…

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…to see that the two original Pointer Sisters here in 2012 (the ones in orange and turquoise) can manage to wear fringed go-go minidresses at their ages. They’re both over sixty, and they seem to have those Tina Turner-esque genes. And boy, they still sound awfully good.

By the way, the purple Pointer is Issa, 35, “the daughter of Pointer Sisters member Ruth Pointer and former Temptations member Dennis Edwards, from their relationship in 1977.” And if you think the audience is a little—ummm—atypical, this was a performance in Utrecht, the Netherlands:

Now let’s go back in time a bit, shall we? Say, thirty-odd years? The night was hot, and so was the song. Note how amazingly un-PC it was, as well as the lack of bras in those days (but they were slender enough to pull it off quite nicely), and the sisters’ exuberant joy in performing. I’m wondering also – could the keyboard player be the same guy in both videos?:

You older folks may remember the sisters’ earlier, retro incarnation. They were always loaded with talent and flair:

A defeat for organized labor in the South

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Workers of the South, unite:

The workers at the VW plant in Chattanooga voted 712-626 to stay out of the union after a lobbying fight in which Republican politicians warned unionization could lead Volkswagen and automobile companies to leave the state.

Volkswagen actually offered some support for the UAW in its effort, which deepened the blow to UAW.

Union officials praised Volkswagen but blamed politicians who had warned workers that by joining they union, they could hurt their own economic interests.

…UAW officials vowed they would not give up in their effort to organize workers in the South, a region that historically has been much more difficult to unionize.

Give up? Never. They are patient.

Here’s an interesting statement:

“While we’re outraged by politicians and outside special interest groups interfering with the basic legal right of workers to form a union, we’re proud that these workers were brave and stood up to the tremendous pressure from outside,” said UAW Secretary-Treasurer Dennis Williams. “We hope this will start a larger discussion about workers’ right to organize.”

The article goes on to add that the UAW president said the union is contemplating legal action about this “interference.” So, who “interfered,” and exactly how? Is telling workers how unions might function in a way that’s counter to their interests “interfering” with the union’s own campaign to woo them?

Further research on this question came up with this:

UAW President Bob King sharply criticized Tennessee politicians who he said scared workers away from voting in favor of union representation.

How did these scare tactics occur? This is the best I’ve been able to do so far in terms of locating the specifics:

Tennessee Republican leaders suggested that the union might limit chances for a plant expansion and make the GOP-controlled Legislature less willing to help the German auto maker expand…

More here about what those Republican leaders said. Apparently the governor said something about the likelihood that if the plant didn’t unionize, an SUV-line might be brought in. I can’t seem to find any actual quotes, though, either from the governor or those other Republicans, so it’s hard to evaluate what’s true. The quote from Senator Corker, however, appears to be this:

Corker, a Tennessee Republican who helped negotiate the incentives package to bring Volkswagen to Chattanooga, said he has talked to VW leaders numerous times and “there’s not a push by the executive leadership or the board toward the UAW.”

“I know for a fact that at the highest levels of VW, they’re aware that if the UAW became involved in the plant, it would be a negative for the future economic growth of our state,” he said.

So Senator Corker’s telling people about the economic effects on the state of Tennessee’s reputation as a place that doesn’t encourage unions is scare tactics, I guess. At least, according to the unions.

Some of the union’s angst – and another significant part of the back story – seems to be the fact that “a majority of workers at the Chattanooga plant [had] signed cards supporting being represented by the union in a European-style works council.” Apparently that led union leaders to believe they had this in the bag. Funny thing, though, a secret ballot is different than signing a card – remember card check, one of Obama’s original goals?