Update on my ex-husband
Yesterday my ex-husband did indeed manage to get out of the rehab hospital and come home, against their recommendations. Without going into details, I’ll just say it was a very stressful day.
I don’t know how it will ultimately go. But at the moment our son is visiting for a few days and helping out. He lives far away, so his presence here is a big treat. His visit doesn’t represent what the day-to-day reality will be, but it’s still great and we’re trying to get as much done as possible while he’s here. For example, that includes getting rid of at least part of a formidable accumulation of junk.
One pleasant surprise is that my ex-husband is eligible for some pretty good temporary benefits in terms of visiting nurses and visiting physical therapists, courtesy of Medicare. They came today – the day after his release – to do an evaluation, which I consider pretty speedy. They were extremely nice, too – we were all laughing and joking quite a bit.
So that’s today.
I know the circumstances are less than optimal, but it is still nice that the three of you are spending time together. And laughing!
And how appropriate as you have written that your ex-husband’s sense of humor was one of the things that most attracted you to him from the start.
Thank you for the updates, neo. You and I are not personally acquainted, but we are in fact e-acquainted, and I (along with so very many of us) are quite interested in how the situation is unfolding.
Very best to you, ex, and son.
M J R
Very encouraging report, Neo. Old age ain’t for sissies, as we old codgers are finding out.
Best wishes for getting those things done that are necessary, and having a few laughs along the way. May your ex recover in good time, and the time with your son be a blessing for you both.
That’s great news! Thank you very much.
So far, so good. Your son’s visit has got to be a morale-booster for both of you. And your ex’s thinking the visiting nurses and therapists are nice is also a step towards a positive recovery period, to the extent possible.
We were very happy with visiting nurses and PTs when my husband hurt his back a couple of years ago. He didn’t go into a rehab unit at all when he left the hospital.
We’ll have in-home rehab visits for a couple of weeks following my husband’s knee replacement next Thursday. Nice.
I hope it goes smoothly Neo.
Yes, Medicare is a great help. Does he have other insurance? Some insurances have a program that will deliver meals. Not sure if Medicare does. There is also Meals on Wheels. All assistance is a great help. If he needs walkers or other assistance, Amazon has great products.
Having a professional on site 24 hrs is really reassuring. Not always worrying…should I call……what if….
I’m glad that his arrival home has gotten off to a good start, and that the support mechanisms are kicking in quickly. Also, congratulations on your son, it looks like you raised him right ! Good of him to add to the efforts, and I’m sure you’re both thrilled to have him there.
Get well soon.
Best wishes to all of you, and hopes for a good recovery.
I no longer advocate for “speedy” because sometimes that’s not the optimum for some rehabilitations, but “as fast as medically efficacious” is too long to write.
“formidable accumulation of junk”
Now you sound like MY wife…
Prayers in earnest for the three of you & the carers who are engaged even temporarily.
That’s good you can find pleasure / silver lining in a time of stress.
The day before my dad passed , he , my mother, and I were able to play a couple or three rounds of a game at the kitchen table. I don’t remember which game we played, but I do remember the time together.
My dad did have the advantage that his mind was still good all the way till the end. It was his heart that was giving out.
One day at a time. (Old wisdom.)
Good news for all of us here who follow you. Here’s hoping the good news continues and having your son there for a visit is good for all. Blessings all around.
Home and family have a therapeutic of their own. Prayers for you all.
My wife is currently in almost the exact situation after a mild stroke. Once you are in the medicare system it seems like patients are put on a roller coaster. You get in the car, take the ride and hopefully pop out at the end unscathed.