Special education teacher Dana Zentgraf has some advice for women, and she wanted to share it with the world:

It’s your son too. It’s all of them,” Zentgraf wrote in a Facebook post under her online name, “Da Graf.” “They are all menace[s] to society and we need to stop giving birth to them.”

“I have news for the mothers of boys who believe they raised their sons ‘right’: In the world we live in, raising a boy right at home does not guarantee that he will be seen or treated right outside those doors,” she continued. “You can do everything in your power to raise him to be a good man … But once he steps outside your home, he enters a patriarchal world that has taught men, in ways both subtle and overt, that they hold power over women.”

“If it’s too late to abort, raise him like your life depends on it because it does. All of our lives depend on it.”

If she indeed posted that, should this woman be teaching anyone? Of course not. She’s free to express such thoughts, but she shouldn’t be employed as a teacher or in any field in which she interacts with the public. And yet – at least as far as I can tell – she still holds her position.

But this post isn’t really about Zentgraf. It’s about the prevalence of this sort of unhinged rage, whether against men or any other group, and the somewhat-puzzling fact that so many teachers and others in the so-called helping professions think it’s perfectly okay to express such thoughts. It was (and still is, actually) a widespread phenomenon after the murder of CEO Brian Thompson and in particular after the murder of Charlie Kirk. We saw it after 10/7. We see it and see it and see it.

It’s not a totally new phenomenon. But what is relatively new is that the internet – and especially social media – give it a perfect chance to spread widely and to be normed. A person gets used to reading this sort of thing and seeing it get attention and approval from like-minded people who have found each other in online forums, and over time the expression of such thoughts seems more and more acceptable. Politicians, comedians (Dave Chapelle is a recent example), and other celebrities add to the din of the baying hounds.

Sometimes if a person goes too far there are consequences; sometimes not. But the Overton Window of what is “too far” has certainly shifted. And I don’t think we’re going back any time soon, or perhaps never.