Happy Mother’s Day: mothers and babies
[NOTE: This is a repeat of my traditional Mother’s Day post. It was written while my mother was still alive.]
Okay, who are these three dark beauties?
A hint: one of them is the very first picture you’ve ever seen on this blog of neo-neocon, sans apple. Not that you’d recognize me, of course. Even my own mother might not recognize me from this photo.
My own mother, you say? Of course she would. Ah, but she’s here too, looking a bit different than she does today—Mother’s Day—at ninety-eight years of age. Just a bit; maybe her own mother wouldn’t recognize her, either.
Her own mother? She’s the one who’s all dressed up, with longer hair than the rest of us.
The photo of my grandmother was taken in the 1880’s; the one of my mother in the teens of the twentieth century; and the one of me, of course, in the 1950s.
Heredity, ain’t it great? My mother and grandmother are both sitting for formal portraits at a professional photographer’s studio, but by the time I came around amateur snapshots were easy to take with a smallish Brownie camera. My mother is sitting on the knee of her own grandfather, my grandmother’s father, a dapper gentleman who was always very well-turned out. I’m next to my older brother, who’s reading a book to me but is cropped out of this photo. My grandmother sits alone in all her finery.
We all not only resemble each other greatly in our features and coloring, but in our solemnity. My mother’s and grandmother’s seriousness is probably explained by the strange and formal setting; mine is due to my concentration on the book, which was Peter Pan (my brother was only pretending to read it, since he couldn’t read yet, but I didn’t know that at the time). My mother’s resemblance to me is enhanced by our similar hairdos (or lack thereof), although hers was short because it hadn’t really grown in yet, and mine was short because she purposely kept it that way (easier to deal with).
My grandmother not only has the pretty ruffled dress and the long flowing locks, but if you look really closely you can see a tiny earring dangling from her earlobe. When I was young, she showed me her baby earrings; several miniature, delicate pairs. It astounded me that they’d actually pierced a baby’s ears (and that my grandmother had let the holes close up later on, and couldn’t wear pierced earrings any more), whereas I had to fight for the right to have mine done in my early teens.
I’m not sure what my mother’s wearing; some sort of baby smock. But I know what I have on: my brother’s hand-me-down pajamas, and I was none too happy about it, of that you can be sure.
So, a very happy Mother’s Day to you all! What would mothers be without babies…and mothers…and babies….and mothers….?
Ahhh, sweet, look at that pensive little girl !
Happy Mom’s Day, Neo & all !!!
As a child, I always thought of my grandmother (mother’s mother) as a plumpish, grey haired, kindly old lady. It wasn’t until years later that I came into possession of many professionally-taken photos of her in her twenties. She was absolutely beautiful back then! For some reason, I was shocked – I guess because I had so misjudged her appearance.
I learned from that experience, though. Now, when I see an older woman, I try to imagine what she looked like when she was young. Many times I find myself thinking, “Man, I’ll bet she was a real beauty 50 years ago.”
GREAT PICS. LIKE YOUR BLOG VERY MUCH. I NEVER MADE THE TRIP FROM LEFT TO RIGHT THAT YOU DID.
Snopercod, I have had the same experience. I thought of my Grandma Lind, my Mom’s Mom, in the same way, until I saw photos taken of her in the mid 1920’s. My Grandma was a Foxy Flapper!
I’ve seen this post before, but I’d never noticed the look on your great grandfather’s face before. Every grandfather with a grandchild on his knee has that look. To have that look in your eye is to have done something right.
I understand that throughout the nation, there is a war going on between “progressives” and “conservatives.” (Public radio being public radio, of course, the “conservatives” are the one wearing Hillary for President t-shirts while the “progressives” are wearing Bernie Sanders for President t-shirts and have posters of Mao and Che hanging up in their offices.) In the city where I live the “progressives” have won out, so most of the classical-music programming has been jettisoned in favor of programming of interest to “the Community.” So how did it celebrate Mother’s Day? By broadcasting an interview with Maya Angelou (ooops, sorry–“Doctor” Maya Angelou) and her son. This makes only the gazillionth interview or feature they’ve done on “Doctor” Angelou in the three months since the format change.
Posting pictures of these mugs has become a fine tradition. I look forward to next year.