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It seems to be in the air: more mass shootings over the weekend — 19 Comments

  1. I’m LDS. Not anywhere close to Michigan, but this was a gut-punch. Why? We LDS are tight knit. This could have been my church meetinghouse. We have a bunch of kids there, because we tend to have big families. This anti-LDS bigotry is real; I’ve personally experienced various forms of it over the years.

    Fortunately, most people realize that LDS folks turn out to be decent neighbors and friends.

  2. Michael Towns:

    I’ve known quite a few Mormons and every one of them has been extremely nice.

    But there have been quite a few attacks on religious gatherings of many different kinds in recent years.

  3. Michael Towns, I have known and worked with Mormons over the years and couldn’t complain about them if I tried. The distrust of Mormons stems, I believe, from certain insular practices of the church. A very good friend of mine converted to marry a Mormon woman and I was invited to their wedding. I didn’t see the wedding, I got to stand outside the church with his brother and sister-in-law. As we weren’t Mormons we weren’t allowed to witness the wedding. Secret “practices” like that scream Cult! to a lot of people. He did end up isolating from his family and old friends. This behavior doesn’t yell cult to me as I’ve seen this in many couples religious or non religious.

    Thought I would have liked to see Chris’s wedding.

  4. It seems to me that both these killers had serious mental disorders. I think the “contagion” part is the atmosphere of violence in the nation. Neither of these awful events seems to be politically motivated.

    I was pleased to hear that authorities in Michigan say everyone is accounted for from the fire scene, so no more bodies are to be found in the ruins.

    I’m watching Jessica Tarlov, Fox News’s resident leftist, insist that the Michigan killer’s being a Trump supporter is an important fact. It would be, if this had been a political act, but even Tarlov probably cannot come up with evidence that Trump supporters in general hate Mormons. In fact, LDS voters probably lean Republican on average.

    In conjunction with the LDS president’s death on Saturday, this has been a rough few days for LDS members. RIP to those lost, and prayers for healing for the survivors.

  5. @ JFM > “As we weren’t Mormons we weren’t allowed to witness the wedding.”

    Not all Mormons get to be witnesses either, if they aren’t current temple recommend holders, but it also holds true for close friends and even family who aren’t part of the immediate kin.

    We like to think of ceremonies like this as “sacred, not secret” and it really isn’t any secret what the wedding rite entails; there are currently millions of people who have had temple sealings performed.

    https://www.churchofjesuschristweddingplanning.com/blog/lds-temple-wedding-questions-answers

    Three of our boys married into other long-time LDS families, but the father of one of the brides had to remain outside as he wasn’t currently a recommend holder, and that hasn’t affected anyone’s relationship.

    Another one married a lovely young lady who joined the church first, as did I before wedding AesopSpouse. Her family and my sister waited with each other inside the visitor’s room appointed for guests, and then joined us for the pictures and the first reception for local friends — none of whom attended the sealing ceremony because the room was already filled with family.

    They had their second reception in the bride’s hometown with her extended family and friends, and the rest of our family, after a lovely ring ceremony.
    Two receptions are very typical for LDS weddings, since the couple often meets at college and the hometowns are widely separated.

    This is probably more than most people wanted to know, but it’s kind of nice to think about happy times right now.

  6. The initial reports of the Michigan shooting made it seem pretty straightforward.

    There was a report that “100” FBI agents were coming to work the case. Another report had “elite investigators”. Seems like over-resourcing a straightforward case, if the reports are true. Is there other info leading someplace else? One report had a hate-Trump/Vance poster on or near his garage. Concerning social media directed at targets other than LDS?

  7. As a matter of policy, excluding close family from a wedding is simply, wrong. Even a young child will recoil at it. Theology that rationalizes to justify it is an example of what Jesus so often in his ministry rebuked.

    I still remember in Navy boot camp (1969) being told that attending church services was mandatory. So I and a few others checked and learned that there was no rule on what service we must attend… so we visited all of them. During the Morman mandatory familiarization lecture, it was explained to us that there were racially determined levels in heaven with whites at the highest level. We left in disgust. If memory serves, that ‘teaching’ was later revised. A policy that excludes close family at weddings is a violation of common decency. Acting like a cult perpetuates the perception of being one..

  8. AesopFan, thank you for the explanation. In my religion/culture not inviting someone to witness the wedding ceremony is a huge insult.

  9. Can we just put any objections we have to past or present LDS theology, history, or practices on hold for just like, a week? I’m not saying we have to wait until the victims have all had their funerals or anything crazy like that, I’m just saying give it maybe a week?

    I don’t recall comments objecting to religious tenets of recent Catholic, Jewish or Amish mass shooting victims, and maybe that’s my poor memory, but I do think a little compassionate silence on this is in order at the moment.

  10. WARNING: LONG REPLY to a comment above follows.

    I apologize for another extensive discourse on a specialized subject, but I feel like the readers here are interested in finding out what we actually believe, and not what is bruited about on the internet. Misconceptions can lead to serious results, as we have just seen, and I would rather clarify those questions when they arise.

    @ Geoffrey < " it was explained to us that there were racially determined levels in heaven with whites at the highest level."

    What you remember that chaplain telling you was not, and has never been, an accepted doctrine of the LDS Church, and I hope he was disciplined for it at some point.

    The "teaching" did not have to be "revised" because it was never official; however, Church historians have written extensively about what some members have at times erroneously believed by referring to historical contexts, and Church leaders have encouraged (too mild a word) members not to preach personal viewpoints from the pulpit.

    There are no racially determined levels of anything in Heaven.
    Anyone who didn't have the benefit of certain blessings on earth will not in the hereafter be denied what they are worthy of here but were unable to receive in mortality.

    I suspect the chaplain was quite unnecessarily mangling the actual doctrines in the references below.

    Essential background: The only doctrines binding on Church members as official beliefs are contained in the Bible, Book of Mormon, Pearl of Great Price, and the Doctrine and Covenants (collectively "the Scriptures"). Official Declarations and Proclamations issued by the First Presidency are generally treated by members as doctrinal in effect, but have to be canonized in the D&C to be officially official.

    The first reference to "levels in heaven" is too long a topic for this forum, but you can find out more here.
    https://eom.byu.edu/index.php?title=Degrees_of_Glory

    The second is the more pertinent topic.
    https://eom.byu.edu/index.php?title=Race,_Racism

    Spencer W. Kimball, in speaking of race and racism as President of the Church, said: “We do wish that there would be no racial prejudice…;. Racial prejudice is of the devil…;. There is no place for it in the gospel of Jesus Christ” (pp. 236-37).

    Latter-day Saints believe that Jesus Christ came to earth to die for all mankind and to teach them how to live. He taught two great commandments: first, to love God with all one’s heart, might, mind, and strength; second, to love one’s fellow men as one loves oneself (Matt. 22:36-39). Throughout his life, Jesus showed how to obey these two commandments.

    Prior to June 1978, priesthood denial to blacks within the Church aroused both concern about, and accusations of, racism in the Church, especially during the civil rights movement of the 1960s in the United States. For more than a century Presidents of the Church had taught that blacks were not yet to receive the priesthood, for reasons known only to God, but would someday receive it. As made clear in Official Declaration-2 (appended to the Doctrine and Covenants in September 1978), there had long been an anticipation that the priesthood would be made available to all worthy men-an anticipation realized and announced June 9, 1978.

    [AF: I was working at the Church Office Building in Salt Lake City at the time, and have stories.]

    In the October 1978 Semiannual General Conference of the Church, President Spencer W. Kimball restated to the world that he had received a revelation making all worthy male members of the Church eligible for the priesthood without regard for race or color (see Doctrine and Covenants: Official Declaration 2).

    The vast majority Church members, including myself and literally (not figuratively for emphasis) everyone I knew, received this revelation with great thanksgiving, and proceeded with the usual ordinations of their ward’s Black members with all possible speed. We currently have a large number of stakes in Africa (some of which predate the Revelation), and have had Black General Authorities from Brazil, Zimbabwe, and Kenya.

    This is a bio of a current African-American leader.
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peter_M._Johnson

    Thanks for the opportunity to clarify that matter. I am sorry you had a bad experience, but (as they say) even churches are full of imperfect people. As a convert myself, I have had to slough off some misguided remarks by some very fine people in my wards.
    And by some also wonderful people in my former church.
    I think I’ve finally brought my family around, but it’s been touch-and-go with some of them. 😉

  11. That NottheBee link was excellent on how internet posts began immediately trying to classify the Michigan killer as “one of those,” either MAGA or left. It’s always best to wait until actual evidence of motivation appears, however demented or evil that motivation turns out to be.

  12. AesopFan-what I said about the wedding is the ONLY bad experience I’ve had with the Mormon church. I wish I could saw the same about my Church.

    The people who commit these spree shootings are insane and/or possessed by demons. Six of one, half a dozen of the other. I am really, really tired of the news people trying to come up with a motive. Just accept that there is no motive and move on.

  13. Just wanted to say: I appreciate the respectful discourse about my faith. It’s been a rough week, and many have not been kind. You guys here have been perfectly kind. Thank you.

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