Childish things
[NOTE: This is a repeat of a previous post. Just for fun.]
When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. —1 Corinthians 13:11
Children have a lot of time on their hands. In my case, there was a fair amount of solitary time, and I filled it with musings and experiments.
For example, there was lying-down-on-the-grass-and-looking-up-at-the-sky, great for studying floaters and musing on what they might be. Insects trapped in the eye? Single-celled creatures, likewise (close, but no cigar)?
And then there was the eating of dirt, an activity I tried only a few times before I abandoned it as unsatisfactory. But I still remember the taste—gritty and complex. Likewise, sucking on a wet washcloth during down time in the bath, an interesting combination of rough and refreshing.
Shining a flashlight on the fingers to see the red glow was rather nice. Lying in bed at night, waiting for sleep to overtake me, an entertaining feature was to press gently on my eyes with my fists and rub, causing the activation of phosphenes and a bit of a light show (the Greeks had described the phenomenon long before my time, but I was unaware of that and thought I’d invented the activity on my own).
Then there was the repetition of a familiar word until it became strange. This was accomplished by simply saying it aloud over and over to the point where it was leached of its original meaning and devolved to a mere sound. I recall this happening most effectively and dramatically with the word “pink,” but others will do quite nicely.
Many of these explorations took place in my yard, which had some dirt patches where grass stuggled to grow, and in the summer anthills were plentiful there. These were opportunities for some very mild ant torture that involved covering an ant with a bit of fine light sand and watching it emerge after a very short struggle, now temporarily and somehow satisfyingly light-colored rather than dark (did that make me both a budding racist and a PETA offender? Mea culpa!)
Our block—a dead-end street—featured areas that had been patched over with tar, and on hot days these bubbled up in splendid fashion. There was a plentiful supply of rocks in the gutters, the pointiest of which could be used to strike the tar bubbles and cause a pleasant pop, similar but not quite as good as the scented zap! of that same rock used on the dots that lined the paper rolls we otherwise would load into our cap guns as ammunition.
I wonder whether children still have the time and inclination to do these things. If they do, they’re not telling the adults. Nor did we—till now.
As a child I did most of those things, and my son did as well, but we didn’t let him have much access to screens until he was about ten or so.
I used to put my fingertips very close together and look at light through the tiny hole, and wonder why it corrected my nearsightedness.
A younger relative is dealing with a 3 year old right now that throws a fit if he isn’t allowed to play with the iPad. It started with a babysitter and now his parents are trying to break him of this. It’s like a drug once he gets it he just sits and plays on it quietly. I’ve seen a number of times kids in grocery carts or restaurants plopped down with the iPad/phone.
Obviously not true of all kids but it seems that a not small number have no interest in going outside and just exploring and doing stuff when they can be on some device.
How about a childish joke?
What kind of Pokemon also likes to eat dirt?
Pica-chu.
I’ll let myself out.
Every kid I see has a cell phone, in constant use.
In a restaurant I once saw a family of four–Mom, Dad, 2 kids–all on his/her cell phone. No family conversation. Food came, all stopped to eat, still no talking. A family in name only.
Self-imposed isolation. Bodes poorly.
Neo-
Dirt-eating was once a sign of iron deficiency anemia in poor, young Southern women.
I get the feeling that kids in rural areas or small towns still do a lot of these things but kids in cities or suburbia do very little of them.
Seems like most kids from middle and upper middle class families have their entire lives scheduled and never have time to just explore their environs.
It really does seem that my generation (Gen X) was the last that grew up in this way. Cell phones and internet truly changed the way kids grow up and not for the better.