Happy Mother’s Day: babies and mothers
[NOTE: This is a repeat of a previous post, slightly edited.]
Okay, who are these three dark beauties?
A hint: one of them is neo-neocon, sans apple. Not that you’d recognize me, of course. Even my own mother might not recognize me from this photo.
My own mother, you say? Of course she would. Ah, but she’s here too—as is her own mother.
Her own mother? She’s the one who’s all dressed up, with longer hair than the rest of us. The photo of my grandmother was taken in the 1880’s; the one of my mother in the teens of the twentieth century; and the one of me, of course, in the 1950s.
Heredity, ain’t it great? My mother and grandmother are both sitting for formal portraits at a professional photographer’s studio, but by the time I came around amateur snapshots were easy to take with a smallish Brownie camera. My mother is sitting on the knee of her own grandfather, my grandmother’s father, a dapper gentleman who was always very well-turned out. I’m next to my older brother, who’s reading a book to me but is cropped out of this photo. My grandmother sits alone in all her finery.
We all not only resemble each other greatly in our features and coloring, but in our solemnity. My mother’s and grandmother’s seriousness is probably explained by the strange and formal setting; mine is due to my concentration on the book, which was Peter Pan (my brother was only pretending to read it, since he couldn’t read yet, but I didn’t know that at the time). My mother’s resemblance to me is enhanced by our similar hairdos (or lack thereof), although hers was short because it hadn’t really grown in yet, and mine was short because she purposely kept it that way (easier to deal with).
My grandmother not only has the pretty ruffled dress and the long flowing locks, but if you look really closely you can see a tiny earring dangling from her earlobe. When I was young, she showed me her baby earrings; several miniature, delicate pairs. It astounded me that her parents had actually decided to have their baby’s ears pierced (and that my grandmother had let the holes close up later on, and couldn’t wear pierced earrings any more), whereas I had to fight for the right to have mine done in my early teens.
I’m not sure what my mother’s wearing; some sort of baby smock. But I know what I have on: my brother’s hand-me-down pajamas, and I was none too happy about it, of that you can be sure.
So, a very happy Mother’s Day to you all! What would mothers be without babies…and mothers…and babies….and mothers….?
Formidable foreheads all.
To everyone who qualifies:
Happy Mother’s Day!
Happy Mother’s Day, Neo.
And StepMoms.
Those photos, all three of them, are absolutely priceless. Thank you so much for sharing them with us! And a Happy Mother’s Day to you as well.
I’ve come to recognize those pics, and they always bring a smile. It’s so cool to have pics from so long ago, the earliest ones probably from those new-fangled contraptions that went off with a bit of flash and pop, later ones being taken with much more portable devices. And boy have cameras come a long way since! Everyone carries one if they carry a cell phone & today taking pictures is much less of a formal dress-the-beautiful-baby-up occasion. It’s as common as answering the phone (literally), instantly memorialized, and a click of a button enables sharing pics with one, or literally all!
Know today was probably a little bittersweet being your first Mother’s Day without your Mom, but I hope your memories with her bring you warmth and happiness with the knowledge that her long life — healthy until those last year or so — was itself good and happy and fulfilling.
I know being a mother has its bumps in the road here and there, but know your son brings you much joy and is a great source of pride. So Happy Mother’s Day to you! Hope it was wonderful.
What Carl in Atlanta said.
Neo, I see now you have always been lovely. And you possess some powerful genes. The three little girls could be the same person.
Aw, too cute !!!!