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		By: ymarsakar		</title>
		<link>https://thenewneo.com/2019/06/15/friendship-who-needs-it/#comment-2439533</link>

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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2019 06:13:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[God is in everything I see for God is in my mind.

I am not the victim of the world I see (pay attention autism spectrum look a likes)

I have invented the world I see, for my mind is part of God&#039;s mind.

My holiness covers everything I see and blesses the world, for there is nothing that cannot be accomplished by a Son of God. God goes with me wherever I am.

Now this uses &quot;god&quot; in terms of Christian speak instead of Ymar speak.

There is nothing to fear for nothing we see is real or the truth.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>God is in everything I see for God is in my mind.</p>
<p>I am not the victim of the world I see (pay attention autism spectrum look a likes)</p>
<p>I have invented the world I see, for my mind is part of God&#8217;s mind.</p>
<p>My holiness covers everything I see and blesses the world, for there is nothing that cannot be accomplished by a Son of God. God goes with me wherever I am.</p>
<p>Now this uses &#8220;god&#8221; in terms of Christian speak instead of Ymar speak.</p>
<p>There is nothing to fear for nothing we see is real or the truth.</p>
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		By: ymarsakar		</title>
		<link>https://thenewneo.com/2019/06/15/friendship-who-needs-it/#comment-2439532</link>

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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2019 06:09:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Nothing I see is real. The world as viewed by biological 3d eyes is meaningless. God did not create a meaningless world. Everything and anything I see is meaningless, for the meaning is lost without the greater sight.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nothing I see is real. The world as viewed by biological 3d eyes is meaningless. God did not create a meaningless world. Everything and anything I see is meaningless, for the meaning is lost without the greater sight.</p>
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		By: AesopFan		</title>
		<link>https://thenewneo.com/2019/06/15/friendship-who-needs-it/#comment-2439503</link>

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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2019 03:38:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Some friendships were shared with the world.

Julie Andrews and Carol Burnett - their friendship in many clips, but has an annoying soundtrack rather than their own dialogue and songs.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWLJVHj2zio

Carol tells how she met Lucy, and how they started working together.
https://www.pbs.org/video/pioneers-television-friendship-carol-burnett-and-lucille-ball/

And the quintessential friendship: Lucy &#038; Ethel, singing the Friendship song.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8IzLxk6D7WA]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some friendships were shared with the world.</p>
<p>Julie Andrews and Carol Burnett &#8211; their friendship in many clips, but has an annoying soundtrack rather than their own dialogue and songs.<br />
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWLJVHj2zio" rel="nofollow ugc">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWLJVHj2zio</a></p>
<p>Carol tells how she met Lucy, and how they started working together.<br />
<a href="https://www.pbs.org/video/pioneers-television-friendship-carol-burnett-and-lucille-ball/" rel="nofollow ugc">https://www.pbs.org/video/pioneers-television-friendship-carol-burnett-and-lucille-ball/</a></p>
<p>And the quintessential friendship: Lucy &amp; Ethel, singing the Friendship song.<br />
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8IzLxk6D7WA" rel="nofollow ugc">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8IzLxk6D7WA</a></p>
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		By: Richard Saunders		</title>
		<link>https://thenewneo.com/2019/06/15/friendship-who-needs-it/#comment-2439493</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Richard Saunders]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2019 02:35:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[My experience growing up was very like Neo&#039;s -- my parents had lots of friends who would gather together frequently.  Most of the time they would discuss politics and religion -- they formed the first Reform synagogue on the Main Line.  The men were all, as far as I can remember, veterans, several had been wounded.  Like virtually everyone in their social milieu, they were on the left to varying degrees. I may even have met some guys who had fought in the Abraham Lincoln Brigade.  My parents, though, had parted with the hard left over the Molotov-von Ribbentrop Pact.  The day before, the Daily Worker was all &quot;Fight Fascism!&quot;  The day after, Germany was a great friend and anybody who disagreed was out.  My dad loved to sharpshoot snarkily at their friends.

But they all remained friends, for their lifetimes.  How sad it is that today, to keep friends, you cannot discuss religion or politics!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My experience growing up was very like Neo&#8217;s &#8212; my parents had lots of friends who would gather together frequently.  Most of the time they would discuss politics and religion &#8212; they formed the first Reform synagogue on the Main Line.  The men were all, as far as I can remember, veterans, several had been wounded.  Like virtually everyone in their social milieu, they were on the left to varying degrees. I may even have met some guys who had fought in the Abraham Lincoln Brigade.  My parents, though, had parted with the hard left over the Molotov-von Ribbentrop Pact.  The day before, the Daily Worker was all &#8220;Fight Fascism!&#8221;  The day after, Germany was a great friend and anybody who disagreed was out.  My dad loved to sharpshoot snarkily at their friends.</p>
<p>But they all remained friends, for their lifetimes.  How sad it is that today, to keep friends, you cannot discuss religion or politics!</p>
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		By: TommyJay		</title>
		<link>https://thenewneo.com/2019/06/15/friendship-who-needs-it/#comment-2439394</link>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2019 16:06:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Looking at some of the very minor internet TV channels, I discovered &quot;Film Noir Flix&quot; which has a nice collection for free viewing, almost advertisement free.

I started re-watching an old classic &quot;In a Lonely Place&quot; starring Humphrey Bogart and Gloria Grahame, probably the best acting performances out of both actors.  Grahame was married to the director at the time.  While generally considered to be in the &quot;noir&quot; genre, the film doesn&#039;t exactly fit in with what you&#039;d expect, and is really a character study of Bogart&#039;s character who&#039;s &quot;in a lonely place.&quot;

Bogart&#039;s character has only two friends, one alcoholic and another who probably would not have maintained the friendship if they weren&#039;t bound together financially.

I love films like this where the script is very well written and has real depth.  On multiple viewings, there is a great deal of character development in the first one and half acts that you can&#039;t appreciate on the first viewing.

It occurred to me that the film has an almost female sensibility to it, and sure enough the original story was written by a woman.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Looking at some of the very minor internet TV channels, I discovered &#8220;Film Noir Flix&#8221; which has a nice collection for free viewing, almost advertisement free.</p>
<p>I started re-watching an old classic &#8220;In a Lonely Place&#8221; starring Humphrey Bogart and Gloria Grahame, probably the best acting performances out of both actors.  Grahame was married to the director at the time.  While generally considered to be in the &#8220;noir&#8221; genre, the film doesn&#8217;t exactly fit in with what you&#8217;d expect, and is really a character study of Bogart&#8217;s character who&#8217;s &#8220;in a lonely place.&#8221;</p>
<p>Bogart&#8217;s character has only two friends, one alcoholic and another who probably would not have maintained the friendship if they weren&#8217;t bound together financially.</p>
<p>I love films like this where the script is very well written and has real depth.  On multiple viewings, there is a great deal of character development in the first one and half acts that you can&#8217;t appreciate on the first viewing.</p>
<p>It occurred to me that the film has an almost female sensibility to it, and sure enough the original story was written by a woman.</p>
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		By: David Foster		</title>
		<link>https://thenewneo.com/2019/06/15/friendship-who-needs-it/#comment-2439393</link>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2019 16:05:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&quot;See a family at a restaurant meal, the children each on a cell phone, gaming or texting, while parents sit mutely.&quot; 

When the telegraph was first invented, a journalist marveled:  &quot;With this invention, there is now no ELSEWHERE...it is all HERE.&quot;

If wired communication reduced the sense of Elsewhere, it seems that wireless communication reduces the sense of the Here and Now.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;See a family at a restaurant meal, the children each on a cell phone, gaming or texting, while parents sit mutely.&#8221; </p>
<p>When the telegraph was first invented, a journalist marveled:  &#8220;With this invention, there is now no ELSEWHERE&#8230;it is all HERE.&#8221;</p>
<p>If wired communication reduced the sense of Elsewhere, it seems that wireless communication reduces the sense of the Here and Now.</p>
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		By: Cicero		</title>
		<link>https://thenewneo.com/2019/06/15/friendship-who-needs-it/#comment-2439386</link>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2019 14:44:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[More to my point, by Anthony Mills in the current  City Journal:

&quot;a long shadow lingers over the country’s otherwise bright economic outlook. It’s not a shadow cast by the trade war, volatile stocks, diminished labor-force participation, or inequality, but rather by low social capital—that is, the interpersonal relationships that generate reciprocity and a shared sense of community, and that play an important role in a healthy economy.&quot;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>More to my point, by Anthony Mills in the current  City Journal:</p>
<p>&#8220;a long shadow lingers over the country’s otherwise bright economic outlook. It’s not a shadow cast by the trade war, volatile stocks, diminished labor-force participation, or inequality, but rather by low social capital—that is, the interpersonal relationships that generate reciprocity and a shared sense of community, and that play an important role in a healthy economy.&#8221;</p>
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		By: Cicero		</title>
		<link>https://thenewneo.com/2019/06/15/friendship-who-needs-it/#comment-2439351</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Cicero]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2019 04:25:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[If one grew up largely alone, being alone is no particular hardship. In my case, out in the country I had one younger brother and one same-aged neighbor with whom to play. Try playing baseball at age ten thataway! 

But humans are social animals, just like dogs. It is not good to be alone. We are meant to run in packs.

The secular forces, ever stronger, keep trying (and usually succeeding) to put us into smaller and smaller boxes, the social equivalent of prison cells, by their false though seductive appeals to the &quot;individual rights&quot; of all : Box A contains one non English-speaking vegan illegal Latina lesbian minimum-wage housemaid; Box B contains one robust, plain-talking goose-hunting Midwestern Protestant tractor owner/driver corn farmer; and so on. 

See a family at a restaurant meal, the children each on a cell phone, gaming or texting, while parents sit mutely. Every one of them is boxed in, without realization. The new normal.

So we become increasingly  isolated while those same forces, the Elites, spur us on to have &quot;conversations&quot;. &quot;Reaching out&quot; is our new idiom for attempting to communicate with another, but doesn&#039;t that raise the vision of reaching out thru prison bars?

I feel so good when I go to church, where I am with a small multitude of both sexes, different skin tones, immigrants and native-borns, all joined together in worship of one God, with the friendliness and mutual respect that cascades from doing so.

You will note, however, that the Elites themselves do not live the way they prescribe for us. They too are pack animals, but they succeed in maintaining their own exclusive packs. Martha&#039;s Vineyard, Marin County, Nob Hill,etc.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If one grew up largely alone, being alone is no particular hardship. In my case, out in the country I had one younger brother and one same-aged neighbor with whom to play. Try playing baseball at age ten thataway! </p>
<p>But humans are social animals, just like dogs. It is not good to be alone. We are meant to run in packs.</p>
<p>The secular forces, ever stronger, keep trying (and usually succeeding) to put us into smaller and smaller boxes, the social equivalent of prison cells, by their false though seductive appeals to the &#8220;individual rights&#8221; of all : Box A contains one non English-speaking vegan illegal Latina lesbian minimum-wage housemaid; Box B contains one robust, plain-talking goose-hunting Midwestern Protestant tractor owner/driver corn farmer; and so on. </p>
<p>See a family at a restaurant meal, the children each on a cell phone, gaming or texting, while parents sit mutely. Every one of them is boxed in, without realization. The new normal.</p>
<p>So we become increasingly  isolated while those same forces, the Elites, spur us on to have &#8220;conversations&#8221;. &#8220;Reaching out&#8221; is our new idiom for attempting to communicate with another, but doesn&#8217;t that raise the vision of reaching out thru prison bars?</p>
<p>I feel so good when I go to church, where I am with a small multitude of both sexes, different skin tones, immigrants and native-borns, all joined together in worship of one God, with the friendliness and mutual respect that cascades from doing so.</p>
<p>You will note, however, that the Elites themselves do not live the way they prescribe for us. They too are pack animals, but they succeed in maintaining their own exclusive packs. Martha&#8217;s Vineyard, Marin County, Nob Hill,etc.</p>
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		By: GRA		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2019 04:22:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[@ Art: That explains some things.

&#062;versus those who freely admit to relying on and valuing friends and being sad when they don’t have enough of them.

I value friendship, but I have to say I&#039;m not that concern on how big my social circle is, just that it&#039;s maintained and that I acquire new friends - if the opportunity arises - as I venture into new environments.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Art: That explains some things.</p>
<p>&gt;versus those who freely admit to relying on and valuing friends and being sad when they don’t have enough of them.</p>
<p>I value friendship, but I have to say I&#8217;m not that concern on how big my social circle is, just that it&#8217;s maintained and that I acquire new friends &#8211; if the opportunity arises &#8211; as I venture into new environments.</p>
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		By: Artfldgr		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2019 20:55:27 +0000</pubDate>
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